Skilled Seducer of the Month, May 2024: Kvothe
Welcome to May 2024’s Skilled Seducer of the Month interview.
Welcome to May 2024’s Skilled Seducer of the Month interview.
This post originally appeared on the forum here.
I straight up got nothing but flakes for about 8 months straight.
I was going mad. What the fuck was wrong?
I was doing everything right.
All the infields looked exactly like my sets.
There was ALMOST nothing that really went in depth about this.
Just crumbs and incomplete theories.
A bunch of loose ends.
Now...
I. Never. Get. Flaked.
It just doesn't happen.
If I run the set well and in my mind, I'm not gonna get flaked, I never do.
I completely fixed this problem, that "floating/not real set" issue completely.
I also helped many people fix this in my local area and I'll share the info with you.
I'll fix this once and for all.
(PS: I'm sorry for that one exception out of a thousand girls that lost her mother in a camp fire later that day, got drunk, got back with her ex, cried herself to insanity when she sobered up and hung herself to end her misery and thus couldn't text you back. "She just wasn't into you, bro. You have the wrong skin-color.")
This post, shared by forum member James D, originally appeared here.
I began Chase's approach 4 girls a day challenge on April 9th, 2023.
That was one year ago already!
Thought I'd share some insights from my own experience.
This won't be anything new. Everything say I say has probably been mentioned on the site before.
That said, everyone's experience will differ and you might find something useful in mine.
This post, written by forum member DoWhatWorks, first appeared on our forum here.
Been in more of a taking vs giving trend (for my own standards) recently so thought I'd just give value in this post by going into my 1st date lay process.
As many of you know I'm a numbers guy so I'll say this to build credibility not brag - this month (April) I've slept with 5/6 girls first time from dates.
(x4 from online dating, x1 night game where I number closed then followed up)
In my past posts I was a big proponent of the Date 2 method & I think it's a useful a tool in your toolkit but after a certain level it makes more sense to go for 1st date lays.
It's more efficient, girls hook better & it just sets all the right frames from the start.
Before I dive in, Chase's post >here< is a must-read and covers the fundamentals. I'm going to add details that have levelled up my consistency.
Some are very obvious, but when you simply do the basics well and avoid mistakes you're halfway there.
Exciting news: we’re beginning a new monthly award entitled the Skilled Seducer of the Month. Each month, we’ll be introducing you to a talented Casanova – ranging from well-known veteran playboys to promising up-and-comers – whose achievements or contributions have earned him the mantle of that month’s Skilled Seducer.
For our inaugural month of April, our Skilled Seducer of the Month is Bloom. Bloom is an American seducer – a former inhabitant of New York City – who’s posted a series of impressive recent same-day lay reports with girls he’s picked up in his travels through South America. His lovers have ranged from an auburn-haired English tourist to a Chilean-Venezuelan visitor to a few Brazilian locals.
What they have in common? Bloom met all of them via day game; he seduced each one the same day he met her; and each and every one of them, according to Bloom, possessed a nice and juicy posterior.
What follows is a transcript of our interview with Bloom, conducted over a phone call, with any private details removed. Get a sense for how Bloom operates, how he selects the girls he chooses to approach, what his seduction journey has been like, and some of the techniques he’s using or developing to take lovers off the street, into his bed.
This post originally appeared on the forum here.
For context, please read this first (and the comments).
Let's say you are texting her back and forth using a proven structure.
(Like: get the number, ping, banter, soft close, hard close > date)
Now let's imagine you try to close and are left on read.
What to do?
Normally guys will wait a bit and re-ping.
Is that wrong?
Of course not.
But it means you are re-starting the process all over again. 🙁
A better solution is to press without being pushy!
But how to do it?
This post originally appeared on our forum here.
Thought I'd share my #1 opener when shopping. It's so simple, and the opportunity so common I rarely need another opener.
Basically, you see a babe standing in front of a shelf/rack considering some items, you approach and open with
I can tell you are putting a lot of thought into this decision.
Granted your fundamentals are decent you will always be met warmly. Often with a laugh.
Now, obviously you have to follow this opener up to generate conversational momentum. But you can definitely consider the ice broken at this point.