Stop stressing over perfect game! Attraction isn’t about flawless moves—master the 4% that matters most & boost your confidence with women.This post by Warped Mindless originally appeared on our forum here.
Sometimes when you approach women, they react poorly. These are VIBE BOMBS – bombs that decrease the vibe. Defuse these bombs, and you can get the girl.This post by Cody Lyans originally appeared on our forum here.
Totally random title but it is the way I pre-approach girls if I intend to go in HOT.
So what is a vibe bomb?
Nurses are some of the most fun, sexually open-minded girls you’ll find. StrayDog shares the opener he uses to strike up seductive conversations with them.This post by StrayDog originally appeared on our forum here.
Alright guys, we're back with another field tested opener that has consistent results. This time it's a little more niche. Nurses!
It is quite common that you will see a fine-looking nurse doing a bit of pre/post work shopping, wearing her scrubs. Sometimes it’s just the shirt or just the pants, so be on the lookout ‘cause the opportunity is still there.
Now, if any of you have spent time with a nurse when she's off the clock, you know that these ladies are a joy to be around. Might as well approach her and see what you two can get into.
The fact that you’re making an effort to look good, not gushing all over girls, and actually trying to be chill & interesting puts you head and shoulders over almost every other man.This post by DoWhatWorks originally appeared on our forum here.
TLDR: If you're on this site, self-improvement focused and avoid doing stupid things around girls you'll stand out against 99% of guys.
You likely don't give yourself enough credit. Remember there are plenty of cool/attractive girls you can get by putting in numbers and this recent looks obsession/maxxing is an insecurity marketing tactic which if I'm honest I occasionally fall victim too. Goodlooking loser had a great post on this (“Hollywood Loves Your Inferiority Complex, Part 1”) back in the day.
Vibe-focused playboy Devilicious shares his exploits and his method for seducing women from day game street approaches – sometimes in mere minutes.Our Skilled Seducer of the Month Award this month goes to Devilicious, a player who’s been with us since the very beginning of his seduction journey. He joined our community at 15 before he’d ever been with a girl or made a cold approach.
Back then Devilicious was dealing with fears and insecurities and considered himself a pushover. Today, he’s a globetrotter with 60 lays under his belt, most of them from cold approach, including a number of incredible pickups with beautiful girls in cities from Madrid to Paris to Sao Paulo to New York City.
It’s been incredible watching him grow, and it’s a delight to be able to introduce him to you today.
If you want to get better at picking up girls, dating girls, and sleeping with girls, there is NO BETTER TOOL at your disposal than writing field reports.This post by Hector Castillo originally appeared on our forum here.
It's been officially 6 years since I've joined this forum. I recently re-reposted my first ever LR (and post on the forum).
What I remembered from reading this report and a few others on the boards right now, is that there is almost NOTHING that makes you better with women quicker than field reports.
It's almost as good as coaching... almost 😀
This month, Chase Amante interviews Skills, the natural turned pickup artist and a long-time pillar of the modern seduction community. Listen as Skills discusses how he developed his game, overcame language barriers, and made his home in seduction.
Listen here:
Connect deeply with women by diving into their values, motivations, and experiences – then, after you’ve elicited these, stimulate on their responses.This post by Glow originally appeared on our forum here.
A subtle but powerful key to managing conversations with women.
Game Generation One tended to rest a lot on spitting game; the art of leading and plowing with multiple stimulating techs. This is definitely useful. Using statements instead of techniques followed. Muti-threading conversations and other techniques came next. These are the more famous ones. Other schools of seduction used other means for conversation management and there are many routes for it.
One such more subtle form of driving, managing and leading convos is elicitation:
to evoke or draw out (a reaction, answer, or fact) from someone.
to draw forth (something that is latent or potential) into existence.
In a seducer’s view, it becomes the art of drawing out her world, to engage her in talking about her. To draw her out. Doing so is a subtle but powerful way to grab attention by activating her, by showing interest for her. And you are leading what she brings out.
At the same time she feels interest for her world, and if done well, it will take her to interesting things she has not connected with in a while. Perhaps never really thought about. Another dimension is that she becomes reactive to you. And the experience is very nice for her. So many good things.
NarrowJ finagles his way into a threesome with a girl he’d been seeing casually and a girl he’d just met. As he puts it, “the vibe after we’d slept off was what you’d expect.This post by NarrowJ originally appeared on our forum here.
I've gotten dangerously close to a threesome only twice in my life.
The first time, I was 19 years old and snuck in a girl's house when she had a couple other girls staying the night with her. I fucked one of them, fingered and made out with another, and the third girl was a virgin who did nothing but watch (although she touched my junk a couple times at the request of the other two girls haha).
The second time I got oh-so-close was about a year ago. That field report is here, if anyone's interested in reading.
So, Saturday night, I finally lived the dream. I can now die a happy man.
P.S., if you only want to read the juicy parts just scroll down to where it says in bold "Things Get Interesting"
February 2025’s Skilled Seducer is Atlas IV, an up-and-coming seducer blasting through sticking points left, right, and center. Read his interview here.