How I Went from Fat Guy to Lady Killer, Part II
This is Part II of my introductory series on how I went from being a lonely fat guy
to a guy who now enjoys all the success with women he wants. If you
have not read the first article yet, I urge you to read that one, then
come back here.
There were highs and there were definitely even more lows during my
journey to mastering the skill to attract women into my life. It would
be impossible to count how many times I got shot down. No matter what
results I was getting, I believed deep inside that this was a skill I
could learn. You have to believe the
same of yourself.
There are studies on people that either have a growth or a limiting mindset. If you do not believe in your own ability to grow and change yourself, then you will miss out on lessons and opportunities to do so.
One thing I did right with learning how to pick up women was that I took everything one step at a time. I must have spent nearly a year just learning how to approach women and start a conversation while managing my fears.
From there I was constantly working on building attraction with my body language and conversation. I worked on that for another couple of years. Every part of interacting with and attracting women I learned one piece at a time. It is very easy to get overwhelmed with this stuff.
On this site alone you have all the resources you need to learn everything from approaching girls cold, to making meaningful relationships. However, depending on where you are at specifically, it doesn’t help to skip ahead.
A miserable fat
guy, invisible to women. That pretty much summed me
up 9 years ago (on the left). Sure, I was a “good guy” at heart, but I
lived my life from the sidelines.