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Insights from the Mind of a Seducer

Lush Teases™ Is Available to Own (Thru July 29th)

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Lush Teases is now liveMy dead-simple Method for easily generating throaty, lustful laughter from girls – and seducing them with your teases – is available to own NOW.

It’s here (again).

The pitch perfect formula that makes teasing girls dead simple.

>> Go Here to See How to Tease Girls Into Bed With “Lush Teases™”

Beginner's Guide to Sexual Escalation, Pt. 3: When She Resists

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the final hurdleStruggling with resistance when escalating? Learn key principles to handle pushback gracefully: backing off builds the attraction & comfort to get things moving again.

Hey guys. Welcome back.

I’ve dedicated this post to helping newer guys understand what happens when they experience resistance. Of course, more experienced guys can still benefit from this information.

I will continue discussing resistance to escalation from a beginner-friendly perspective, focusing on the fundamentals. My approach is to provide a few key principles, theories, and rules to keep in mind, which should help most men land most girls. It’s important to note that some level of attraction, comfort, and good logistics should already be in place. This should be obvious.

In my last two posts, we’ve discussed how to prevent resistance by focusing on timing and covering whether to escalate slowly or quickly. Prevention is always a better choice.

However, resistance may still occur. I’ll tell you how to tackle it if it happens.

What I am about to share will not help you get an uninterested or uncomfortable girl into bed. The material below will be effective if there is at least a certain amount of compliance. You should have some interest and comfort built, plus a good logistical setting (back at your or her place alone, for instance). There are ways to dodge resistance without having any of these three factors in place: interest, comfort, and logistics, however that’s advanced, and we will not cover it here. Experienced seducers will agree that, if possible, it is always better to escalate if those three premises are in place first.

Let’s recap potential causes of resistance.

How to Never Be the "Dancing Monkey" When Joking with Girls

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no more dancing monkeyDevelop the ability to tease playfully without becoming the “dancing monkey” – learn how to make humor work for you, not against you.

We’re two days away from the rerelease of Lush Teases™. I hope you’re jazzed (I am!).

In the meantime, let’s talk about balancing your humor properly to get maximum value from it.

How to Get Tattoos to Attract Women

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getting tattooed to seduceSo you’re considering getting some tats. But you want sexy tats. Tats that attract women. What tattoos attract women most though – and where to put them?

Women are attracted to tattoos. Well, some women. Many women. At least, slutty women. (Trump voice): “And that’s okay. We like that.”

[WATCH] Escape the "Platonic Funny Guy" Zone: Sexing Up Your Humor

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want to seduce? your humor must be sexy!All too often, guys get stuck in the “platonic humor” zone. To escape this deadly trap, you must inject sexiness into your flirtations – like THIS.

We’re days away from the rerelease of my Lush Teases™ Method, the only broken-down model ever created that teaches men exactly how to CONSTRUCT humor that ends with girls in their beds.

Quick Wit or Unbothered Cool? How to Own Social Banter

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owning the frame when others tease youStruggling with social banter? Develop quick-witted comebacks or exude unbothered cool to own the frame. Here’s how to dominate any repartee.

[WATCH] The #1 Comedy Trick You're Not Using (But Should Be)

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my favorite way to tease girlsDive into my #1 comedy trick to make her laugh and crave you. Personalize your humor for deeper connection & seduction. Watch now.

When girls are laughing, they let you get away with murder (well, maybe not murder, but they sure let you touch them all over and lead them all about).

Beginner's Guide to Sexual Escalation, Pt. 2: How Soon to Escalate to Sex

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how soon to escalate to sexDiscover how soon to escalate to sex without resistance. Learn the perfect timing—too fast or too slow can ruin your chances. Master calibration now!

Hey guys. Welcome back.

Today, I’ll continue last week’s discussion on end-game physical escalation for beginners. There may still be valuable insights for intermediates, and let’s face it, even advanced guys can benefit from a refresher.

The goal of this post remains the same as last week’s: to shift the focus away from escalating and breaking through resistance and instead, discuss how to avoid it in the first place. Prevention is the most effective strategy for tackling this. It’s also much less frustrating. After all, who enjoys facing resistance after spending time with a girl you desire?

It’s also a more pleasant strategy because dealing with resistance directly often kills the vibe, and there is plenty of room for mistakes. When you address resistance head-on, it typically sets an unwanted frame of you chasing her—sometimes even desperately—since she is saying no, and you are trying to persuade her to say yes.

Of course, there are ways around this, but they can be tricky. I will share the basics in next week’s post, do not worry. Dealing with resistance head-on will almost always have negative consequences on your frame.

Last week, we discussed whether one should escalate immediately or wait. Framed differently, what are the implications of rushing things, or waiting before escalating “to play is safe”? Both methods can backfire. If you escalate too early, your girl may not be in the right mood or feel comfortable enough, “not ready” yet, thus increasing your chance of facing resistance.

If you wait too long, you may miss an escalation window. She may be ready now, but your window closes. There may be several reasons: her mood changes (see Chase’s fantastic post on cresting, Emotional Cresting: What It Is and How to Use It), or she starts noticing your indecisiveness and perceives you as a “friend” and not a potential sexual partner.

The bottom line: If you try to escalate outside of a window when it closes, you risk facing resistance.

I cannot stress how important this is. This may seem a bit far-fetched to those just starting (and even those who have been around a while), but these effects are powerful. It takes experience to grasp concepts that truly have an impact. That was the case in my journey.