Getting Past the "Spotlight Effect" When Approaching Girls: 4 Steps
If you feel like “everyone’s watching” you talk to girls, that’s the spotlight effect. Use these 4 steps to beat it and it’ll hamper you with women no more.
If you feel like “everyone’s watching” you talk to girls, that’s the spotlight effect. Use these 4 steps to beat it and it’ll hamper you with women no more.
Some men are too proud to succeed with women. But not the arrogant man. He succeeds with women in spades. What separates futile pride from triumphant arrogance?The world is littered with men far too proud to ever succeed with women.
Sex talk should work well on sexually experienced girls – right? Well, not the basic stuff on positions (they’ve heard & done it all before). But: there is a branch that works GREAT.Hey guys. Welcome back.
A few stock transitions are all you need to move into role-playing with women in any courtship. Use my 5 role-play transitions for easy-peasy role-plays.Commenting on my guide to ‘little leaving’ (a kind of mini-takeaway), Appollo77 asks:
There are 3 kinds of ‘agenda mode’ / husband hunter type girls. Two of them you can sleep with; one, however, you must SCREEN OUT (to not waste time)!Lots of guys right now are troubled over women in ‘agenda mode’:
Those girls who are hunting for husbands, screening out the players, looking for commitment.
How do you, y’know, get it on with such girls?
Sexually liberated girls – women with sex positive attitudes – can be very open to sexual frames. But watch out for ‘true believers’; frame control required!Hey guys,
What do you do if you’re not a woman’s type? Simple enough: just elicit her romantic and sexual values – then build yourself as her type.
She’s at your place, clothes are coming off, then she says, “I don’t usually do this.” Why’s she say it? What’s it mean? And exactly what should YOU do?
Want her chasing you to prove her naughtiness? Use a little reverse psychology: once she’s hooked into you, accuse her of being “too nice/good” for you.This post by NarrowJ originally appeared on our forum here.
Roses gets an upgrade as I weave stories into the already-written chapters. Now, rather than merely a process-focused book, it’s chock full of examples, too.It’s been the better part of a year since my last update on my progress writing the Roses of Romantic Attraction, so – time for a new one.