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How to Act Around a Girl Who Rejected You

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By: Chase Amante

how to act around rejecting girlsIt’s awkward running into girls who rejected you. Should you ignore them or try to be nice? And is it possible to re-attract them & ask them out again?

Getting rejected by a girl sucks.

It’s awkward and sometimes painful.

But do you know what’s about 10x more awkward than the rejection itself?

Running into the girl who rejected you and not knowing how to act.

What should you do when you see her again?

Should you…

  • Try to explain you didn’t actually mean to ask her out?

  • Apologize for something awkward you did the first time around?

  • Flirt with her as if nothing has changed?

  • Give her the cold shoulder and ignore her completely?

What’s the correct play?

I’m going to spell out for you the socially savviest play you can make when encountering a girl who rejected you – the play that most guarantees you come out on top, looking cool, suave, and in-control, and making her question whether ‘rejecting’ you was really the right call.

After that, we’ll talk about making moves on girls who rejected you again, too… if, that is, you want to.

You're Already Cooler Than 99% of Guys

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By: Skilled Seducer

you're cooler than 99% of other menThe fact that you’re making an effort to look good, not gushing all over girls, and actually trying to be chill & interesting puts you head and shoulders over almost every other man.

This post by DoWhatWorks originally appeared on our forum here.

TLDR: If you're on this site, self-improvement focused and avoid doing stupid things around girls you'll stand out against 99% of guys.

You likely don't give yourself enough credit. Remember there are plenty of cool/attractive girls you can get by putting in numbers and this recent looks obsession/maxxing is an insecurity marketing tactic which if I'm honest I occasionally fall victim too. Goodlooking loser had a great post on this (“Hollywood Loves Your Inferiority Complex, Part 1”) back in the day.

How to Fractionate In and Out of Sex Talk

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By: Alek Rolstad

keep the frame freshSex talk is a powerful seduction tool. But overuse it, and the sex talk turns stale. How do you avoid this? With fractionation. Here’s how to keep your sex talk fresh.

Hey guys. Welcome back.

Last week, we discussed the importance of using fractionation with sex talk. For an explanation of how fractionation works, see Fractionation Simply Explained.

Fractionation is a simple yet powerful technique for alternating between a topic, vibe, or frame. In this instance, it involves bringing up sexual topics, then switching to a different subject for a while, before returning to the conversation about sex.

Why should you use fractionation?

  1. It keeps the interaction fresh.

  2. It avoids overinflating the subject, which can decrease its value.

  3. It leaves the girl wanting more, which makes her more invested in you and the interaction.

  4. It creates comfort, which is especially useful if you sense resistance coming. This helps you bypass potential roadblocks.

  5. It helps you maintain the social frame so that the interaction seems smooth.

But exactly how should you fractionate? When? And into what?

First, a disclaimer. Today, I will provide detailed calibration information. Keep in mind that I am doing this because some readers are already good with sex talk. Do not feel intimidated or fall for the trap that you will not do well unless you are perfectly calibrated. You will usually be fine if you at least fractionate occasionally. The details below encompass things I do not always think about when in-field myself. But this is Girls Chase, so the more information we can provide to assist, the better. But do not get caught up with every calibration detail.

10 Signs She's a Nymphomaniac Who Loves to F*ck

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By: Chase Amante

signs she's a nymphomaniac6% of women are nymphomaniacs. But how can you tell if she is one? By looking for these 10 signs she’s a nympho who loves to get down with guy after guy.

Time for a fun guide.

If we define as “nymphomaniac” any girl who has (or will have in the future) 50 or more lifetime lovers, 6% of women qualify as nymphomaniacs. Heck, 2.5% of women will experience 100+ lovers over the course of their lifetimes – ultra-nymphos!

These women are out there – and some of the women you’ll encounter, some of the time, will be them. The question we’ll answer today is, “How do you know who’s who?”

“Wait, Chase,” I hear you ask, “why would I want to know if a girl’s a nymphomaniac?”

Two reasons:

  1. To spot girls who are going to be a totally great time in bed

  2. To avoid girls who are highly likely to cheat on you if you attempt monogamy with them

If either of those reasons (or both of them) has any appeal to you, then read on.

(if not, then I guess skip this article, and let it stay a mystery for you!)

As you read, keep in mind: just one or two of these signs, and she may or may not be a nympho. But the more of these signs you see, the more your brain should start blaring “nympho alert!”

Tactics Tuesdays: LMR Objection Probes

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By: Chase Amante

sniffing out LMR in advanceIs it possible to forecast what last minute resistance girls will give you BEFORE you pull them? It is… and once you know, you can bust that LMR before even reaching the bedroom.

Over on X, Girls Chase reader and X follower Silvius Panther asks the following:

I responded to him that

You should be testing/probing for everything you want to do, usually indirectly, during the conversation with her.

She’ll show resistance around areas she’s not comfortable with. Your job is to figure out why and attempt to address that before it’s late in the game and you get hit with all the unaddressed objections at once.

In keeping with this theme, today I’d like to give you tools for how you can easily probe for each of the five (5) most common objections you’ll encounter as last minute resistance from women in the bedroom.

That way, you’ll know what you’re up against before the pivotal moment – and can even defuse this resistance before it occurs.

What Makes a Man 'Strong' to a Woman?

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By: Chase Amante

what makes a man strong to womenWhat makes a man strong in a woman’s eyes? Is it him going above and beyond for her – or is it something more primal and elemental than that?

Strength is one of the most pivotal qualities of a man.

A man’s strength makes him attractive to women. A lack of it repels them.

A man’s strength reassures women. A lack of strength alarms them.

A man’s strength causes women to follow him. A lack of it makes them abandon him.

Clearly, it’s vital as men that we maintain strength if we want things to go well for us with women (instead of the opposite). But what IS strength and how do women measure a man’s?

Fractionate Your Sex Talk (and Amplify Its Power)

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By: Alek Rolstad

fractionate your sex talk and amplify its powerSex talk is matchless for setting powerful sexual frames. But some girls aren’t prepared for non-stop sex talk. The solution? Fractionate your sexual frames.

Hey guys, welcome back.

I have noticed that more men, particularly those at an intermediate level on the forums, have been discussing fractionation. I decided to write some basic posts to assist with calibrating and using it correctly.

Today, I’ll cover the essentials and discuss how to use fractionation in sex talk. I have already mentioned the role of fractionation in pickup in previous articles, and I believe it is a key technique to master.

To fractionate during sex talk, you switch from sex talk to another topic, then rinse and repeat. This allows you to change up and fractionate your interaction. For example, on a dance floor, you may dance sexually and then switch to a more social style of dancing, before fractionating back to dancing sexually. The same goes for when you opt for a push-pull strategy of mixed signals—you show interest for a bit, before switching to non-interest, and back again.

Fractionation is a broad concept that includes various techniques. Generally, it involves switching between different states, vibes, or frames. I go into more depth in this post:

Fractionation Simply Explained

Skilled Seducer of the Month, May 2025: Devilicious

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By: Skilled Seducer

Skilled Seducer of the Month, May 2025: DeviliciousVibe-focused playboy Devilicious shares his exploits and his method for seducing women from day game street approaches – sometimes in mere minutes.

Our Skilled Seducer of the Month Award this month goes to Devilicious, a player who’s been with us since the very beginning of his seduction journey. He joined our community at 15 before he’d ever been with a girl or made a cold approach.

Back then Devilicious was dealing with fears and insecurities and considered himself a pushover. Today, he’s a globetrotter with 60 lays under his belt, most of them from cold approach, including a number of incredible pickups with beautiful girls in cities from Madrid to Paris to Sao Paulo to New York City.

It’s been incredible watching him grow, and it’s a delight to be able to introduce him to you today.

Tactics Tuesdays: Breaking Women's Tests with "Only"

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By: Chase Amante

busting her tests with onlyWhen women test you about “other girls”, there’s one simple but powerful teasing response you can use: “only the girls who… [FILL IN THE BLANK]!”

Wouldn’t it be great to have a super SIMPLE one-size-fits-all teasing formula you could use to defuse a large number of the most common tests women toss your way?

  • “You must say/do this with every girl.”

  • “Does that line actually work for you?”

  • “Do you always go this fast?”

  • “I’ll bet you buy drinks for other girls.”

  • “Do girls actually go for that?”

In today’s Tactics Tuesdays, I will give you just such a formula.

We’re coming up on the rerelease of my one-of-a-kind “tease girls” course, the Lush Teases Method™. Last time I released it during the US presidential election (bad timing on my part), so while a bunch of guys picked it up my guess is many also missed it. So this will be your chance to grab Lush Teases™ if you didn’t grab it before.

As we build up to the rerelease, I want to try to get a little more content up on teasing girls.

So, here we are – a simple but powerful little tease-based tactic you can use to instantly defuse a certain class of questioning/tests from girls.

It’s teasing answers that begin with the word “Only.”

Why Don't Girls Signal You More? The Awareness-Playfulness Decline

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By: Chase Amante

why aren't women signaling more?The smart phone era has put us all into our heads. The result has been fewer women signaling men – and fewer men approaching women.

Taking a stroll down a leafy city sidewalk today I connected a few separate factors I hadn’t before connected. Men have had a lot of complaints recently about women not signaling them, even as women have complained about men not approaching them. Many of us in seduction have noticed that women’s signaling frequency has gone down compared to a decade+ ago.

People are more introverted, shier, with poorer social skills overall – and a lot less likely to be in what I call ‘social mode’.

I’ve talked before on Girls Chase about how you’re a lot more likely to elicit signals from women when you’re attuned to women and the environment around you. We’ve also talked about how to elicit approach invitations from women using attention grabs before. We’ve even talked about prompting women to approach you outright!

The dots I connected during today’s sidewalk stroll however connect all these factors into an overall social fabric that makes the ‘signal decline’ make a lot more sense.