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Pre-Opening

pre-openingOpening (or engaging a woman verbally for the first time) in-and-of itself is a necessity, something that must be done 96% of the time when you want to meet a girl (if we imagine that about 4% of opening is done by women themselves). It’s unavoidable and inescapable. Different types of openers can net you different results – with direct openers being of course the flavor of opening that typically offers the most bang for your buck.

But outside the words used in the opener itself, there are in fact a few other things you can do with your openers to have them serve you far better.

Enter pre-opening. A term I coined to give name to a handful of small nonverbal gestures that net big returns in opening percentages and efficacy.

This is stuff that will get more girls opening for you, more eagerly. If you want women falling all over themselves when you first say hello, outside of making changes to your clothing, hairstyle, posture, eye contact, voice, and other fundamentals, this – pre-opening – is the way to do it.

There are several categories of pre-opening I’d like to cover here, so rather than spend a lot of time talking about the how and why, let’s just dive into them and hash that part of it out as we go.

Stillness

stillnessWhen I was in high school, I focused really hard on being very still and moving slowly. I thought it made me seem more dominant and powerful, so I put a lot of energy into mastering it.

Nowadays, paying more attention when I'm out and hanging with girls, I'm realizing this is a big thing, nonverbally. Women are very attuned to how still you are. Being still radiates power.

Finding Your Niche

We've got a great new FREE mini ebook out, geared toward getting the beginning student out there meeting new women with a lot more clarity and a lot less confusion, and that will prove useful to a lot of intermediate level guys out there too.

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Women as Sex Objects: Supercharge Your Game

This is for reasonably experienced guys. Newer guys will struggle with making this effective, I believe – it might even backfire. But for guys who are reasonably adept with women – if girls are easily attracted to you, if you’re good at getting them to follow your lead, if you have sex with different girls on a somewhat regular basis – this is something you want to read.

Referencing scientific research here, but I’m not one to be politically correct anyway, sooo… let’s talk about objectifying women.

Using Intrigue to Get Girls Chasing You

using intrigue with womenOne big mistake I see a lot of men make when meeting new women is forgetting to allow for some mystery… a little intrigue. And a little bit goes a long way – it fascinates women, gets them thinking about you when you’re not there, gets them frustrated – in a good way! – trying to figure you out.

Closing With Consistency

close consistentlyHad a cool discussion tonight with a buddy of mine about some cats who are fearless at closing, and close well and often. Same-Night Lays (SNLs) from clubs, bars, no problemo, on a consistent basis.

Sure, SNLs happen, but how many guys have them happen consistently? I know just a handful of dudes who have consistency in that regard.

What I've noticed in these guys, and myself when I'm successful usually, is that closing consists of two parts:

Review: How to Date Korean Women

My buddy BlueMystery, whom I had a blast partying with over in Seoul a year ago, has finally put down all the knowledge and skill he's accumulated meeting and dating women over there into a comprehensive ebook.

And it's a great, solid book, too. Having helped proofread the first version, I can attest the time and dedication that Blue put into strapping together a quality product. The sections on inner game and figuring out what you really want from a woman are fantastic and are applicable to ANY kind of girl, actually, and the suggestion that you pull up roots and MOVE to where the kind of women you want live is... well, not something you here from a lot of folks, but it's great advice and quite refreshing.

Angry Girls: How to Deal With Angry Women and Why Women Get Mad

I’ve been hearing about this a lot lately from a few different folks, so wanted to write a post on it.

Anger. Most men tuck tail and run when they encounter an angry girl. They figure hey, it’s a bad situation, I’m going to get as far away from it as I can.

Of the few men left over who stuck around after she started fuming, most of THOSE men tend to become offended and get angry in return, leading to arguments, shouting, and in some sad circumstances, slapping and hitting and violence.