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Who would've thought scientists'd ever get around to proving something like this?
A decade and a half ago, I found that if I wore outrageously cool and different clothes, I attracted a lot of attention to myself. When I later took on a tougher persona in university, I took to wearing a lot of (what I'd now describe as really tacky) gold jewelry all over: big chunky gold rings with huge fake diamonds, gold necklaces, a really flashy gold cubic zirconium-studded bracelet that people would stop me to comment on and more than a few bouncers and DJs tried to buy off me or barter for.
I wouldn't be caught dead in that getup these days, mainly because I have a very different image now, but it got me attention, and what I did with that attention was up to me.
And what else I found was that it caught a lot of women's attention. And I couldn't prove it, but they seemed a lot more interested in me than most of the other averagely-attired guys in my classes.
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Thank You...
Following your advice, Chase, helped me pick out *suave*, not silly looking attire.
This has been the the most helpful guide in knowing how to *peacock*, in
a sexy way -- not silly "look at me I'm a clown" way.
I purchased $200 worth of new cloths (2 new outfits) and I can't wait to
get it by mail and apply the rest of your *sexy man* fundamentals with as
much force and progression.
(I even purchased a Fedora hat because of your recommendation -- you
are right -- they DO look classy, they stand out, it's unique, and I never
see other men wearing them except for, well, other skilled seductioners
like yourself)
...the attire is, in my opinion, the way to start any sort of attraction. As
you said, it's the FIRST thing people see and it's the FIRST impression.
My theory is this (and I could be wrong):
If you respect yourself and your body -- you're clothes will match. If you
fell like shit, you'll look like shit.
This step is complete...now I'm focusing on the other areas...
Peacocking with shaved head
Hi Chase,
I am in my early twenties and am starting to see some hair thinning on the top of my head. I know the bald factor will take me down a few notches in terms of attractiveness, but can you recommend me doing anything with a shaved head (ie put on a bad boy look of a diamond stud earing, silver necklace, buff upper body, stubble on face et)
From your general perspective, how much do you think that being bald REALLY effects women's attraction towards men. (bearing in mind that I have a high degree of facial attractiveness and symmetry, been told countless times before that I look good with a shaved head and am also heavily into weightlifting and am making large gains)
Cheers
Earrings
Hey Chase!
I wanted to get your opinion on earrings. I'm young and a lot of guys around my age wear earrings these days. I think it suits me; I wear a stud in each ear. I don't want it to take away any masculinity because I feel like earrings are more accepted in more Eastern societies. What do you think of earrings and their influence on peacocking and what girls think? The girls I've met have all said they like them, I just wanted to know your thoughts.
Sincerely,
Garrett
your vibe
its all about your vibe, long as your vibe is masculine you should be OK.
I live in florida, im 21, a college student, I stand at 5 "6" I wear conservative studs, 3-6 MM and I have them in 5 colors, and I match them to what I wear. ive had my
ears pierced for 2 years now, and never has another goy or woman tried me. bt also my stile is metro, Bt i come of as masculine.
Peacocking?
Is it me or does your description of peacocking sound like a description of the way an archetypal pimp would dress? Just a thought. The first thing I thought about when I read "pea cocking" is of a pimp.
How I Peacock -- Initial results ≠ closing the deal
There's also the ghetto/swag clothes and accessories. Girls love them. Same for the tattooes.
My peacocking has always been spikey hair + conspicuous sideburns ever since I turned 15 (21 for the latter). But even when I don't have those at times I still get attention and favorable initial reactions/results from the girls because I'm handsome. That's why I rarely look for "how to get their attention" stuff when reading pickup advice.
But I have been reading pickup advice the last two years (and improved a lot ever since) nonetheless. And the reason I started doing that is because, sure, girls always look at me, smile, are more receptive when I approach them and probably even cut me more slack when I mess up during the interaction -- that's what being handsome or maybe peacocking does to you, but that's it. If you aren't interesting (either intriguing, exciting, or fun) enough during your interaction or if you're too gutless, cautious, or confused to escalate, she will lose interest and either leave in the first interaction, friendzone you, or dump you in the first week if you start dating.
When my pals see the girls glancing me or smiling at me when we're somewhere, they would always go, "Dude you must be slayin' hard with all this chick attention!" and I would just nod along. (The funny thing is that even the female friends acquaintances used to assume I got laid and girlfriends easily because of my looks alone and say stuff to that effect -- girls truly are clueless when it comes to girls.) But the painful truth was that, I wasn't; at least not until I improved my fundamentals and developed a more go-for-it attitude when it came to the opposite sex.
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