6 Outfits That Will Help You Look Sexy

Sure,

Any style can work with shorter stature as long as you follow few simple strategies:

-Avoid high contrast between upper and lower body (i.e. if you're wearing a dark jacket, pick dark jeans too)

-Avoid baggy clothes (applies to everyone :) )

-Chelsea boots, work boots, combat books all with sizeable heel are your friends.

-Low rise jeans will make your torso look longer.

-Avoid jackets that cover your butt (or longer), your legs will appear longer.

-Use accessories to draw attention to your chest / shoulders.

-Avoid shoulder length hairstyles.

-Stick with thinner belts.

-Avoid large prints on tees and shirts.

Hope this helps!

Haha, spot on - let's leave the nice guy look for those who want to meet her parents.

Hm... sounds like a great idea for an article - "Bare Essentials For Looking Attractive", now we just need Chase's stamp of approval :)

But to be actually helpful, these are the areas you should focus on first and foremost:

-Make sure your clothes are always clean and ironed (if you're scared about damage wash your clothes in lower temperature or even by hands.)
-Fit is king, queen and the whole royal family.
-Quality > quantity (a good piece will last longer and will be more price efficient than a bunch of low quality alternatives if maintained properly)
-Add 1 - 2 accessories to your current looks, be subtle at first.
-Check out the following articles for more tips:

http://www.girlschase.com/content/fashion-men-primer-looking-amazing
http://www.girlschase.com/content/summer-fashion-men-your-z-guide-lookin...
http://www.girlschase.com/content/styled-summer-style-consultation

And yes, I'm Lithuanian - turns out, we're good at more than just basketball haha

Hope this helps

Hey,

Let me first note, that dark clothes and fair skin tend look good only when the wearer has dark hair too. If dark clothes are combined with pale skin and blond hair, they would completely overwhelm the natural features (not ideal.)

Dark and mysterious - sounds like a solid plan!

First tip, instead of black pick other darker shades of other colors: purple, burgundy, grey, brown.

Now, to get the mysterious effect you don't necessarily need to look like someone from The Matrix movies.

Few tips:

-Mix styles, be hard to read. For example, add an edgier piece to an otherwise classy outfit.
-Differentiate yourself from the crowd. Have 1 or 2 pieces that look unique, stand out (just make sure they don't look weird). Avoid dressing like every other guy in the venue.
-Scarfs are awesome for stylishly hiding some of your features and in turn adding mystery.
-Consider going for medium or slightly longer hairstyle and rock facial hair (not suitable for every situation)
-Make sure you have the body language, demeanor that goes well with the look.

All in all, dark colors help, but are not mandatory to create a mysterious look.

Hope this helps

Thank you!

-20 C (-4 F) winters and colder are not uncommon here so I get the pain. And you're absolutely right, most winter-gear makes us look ridiculous (loving the Michelin Man reference, very accurate!)

The best approach I found is going for thick wool coats and multiple layers underneath (wool knitwear + buttoned shirt is a good combo), add a thick scarf, leather gloves with fur and you can keep yourself quite warm. Also make sure to keep your feet warm, boots are great for this.

Hey subzzz,

Great to hear from you and glad your office look is working as expected :)

Tees / polos / sexy buttoned shirts are pretty much mandatory for your upper body in that heat (I'm so jealous right now haha). You could go for ripped jeans if you want an edgier look or a pair of bolder linen trousers, like bright red (salmon), just nothing too bold (worn with white casual buttoned shirt).

Work boots,

Here: http://www.asos.com/ASOS/ASOS-Workboots-With-Shearling-Look-Lining/Prod/...

Hey Stingray,

You're right, it takes just moments for people to make a first impression of us, so we might as well do our job to point them in the right direction to increase the odds of falling into the woman's "oh wow, I'd like to get into his pants" category.

To answer your question, in theory there's nothing wrong with going for women's skinny jeans (and for some guys of shorter stature that their best bet for skinny jeans). You could put women's jeans under men's jeans section in a store and 9 out of 10 guys would have no clue they are buying something that's supposedly designed for women.

And yet, in most cases it's just unnecessary - brands like Zara have skinny elastic jeans specifically designed for men that does the job.

Hope this helps

Sure, though finding stylish pieces can still be a bit difficult. Still, denim shirts and jackets are very viable with certain looks (also because most guys are slow to catch up with this look, it's a nice way to differentiate yourself from the crowd. I wouldn't be too surprised if in a couple of years every other guy would own one). Couple of ideas:

http://www.pinterest.com/pin/481111172667016773/

http://www.pinterest.com/pin/481111172664888679/

Hey,

Great question.

First off, those small variations (classic shoes over Chelsea, how tight the cut is on jeans, waistcoat's design, how tight the jacket is; for example, picking coat over biker jacket is a solid way to move it further on the "classy" scale) is the difference between stylish / well-dressed and raw / sexual. Waistcoat as a piece of clothing is great for day time by the way.

If executed as explained Look 4. would draw a lot of attention during the day, considering most people are a bit more chill / casual in their attire. If you can stay unaffected by this attention (or even thrive on it) - more power to you, it's a great look and there's nothing from the technical aspect that makes it unsuitable for day time. Simply put, most guys won't be able to pull it off.

Heck, I occasionally pull a very similar look during the day when I feel like getting an "ego-boost" from the attention :)

Thank you Mr. Anonymous for sharing this, it really does mean a lot!

(I just hope it's not against the rules haha)

Well, you will quite obviously notice women checking you out way more often. Quite likely, you will also notice people in service (cashiers, baristas, etc.; mostly women though) suddenly act friendlier, get chatty. On the other hand, a not-so-friendly remark or two from random insecure guys also might happen.

You can slightly "tone it down" by sticking with slim fit jeans instead of skinny-elastic that molds around your legs almost like yoga pants for women :) (On the downside you'll probably won't hear women behind you giggling and discussing how good your butt looks)

At least those are my experiences with this look and it's "side effects". On a more serious note, as mentioned in previous reply, there's nothing in this look that makes it technically inappropriate for day time.

By the way, this "as looking good and well dressed really boosts up my confidence level." feeling is actually very real. There's a study that shows we tend to assume the qualities we associate with a particular outfit. In other words, if you think you're wearing your "sexy outfit" you're more likely to feel and act in a sexual way.

Hey mate,

I don't have the links with me now but both of them were taken from Asos.com -> Men's Accessories.

They might be sold out by now (or not), in anyway, you should be able to find plenty of very viable alternatives there.

Cheers

Your background helps, but you didn't mention the most important part - what qualities would YOU like to convey when people see/meet you?

"Asian" is a little broad as depending on where exactly you're from and your lifestyle your skin tone can be very different.

EffortlessGent has prepared a pretty good chart on colors and skin tone: http://www.effortlessgent.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/EG_dressForYour...

Still,

I'd like to draw your attention to the most important aspect - you're not getting results you're aiming for.

I would start introducing more color to your outfits and see the feedback. Don't over do it at first, one - two items at a time. A lot of guys, who are going for classy/edgy, put themselves way too far into the conservative side to get any noticeable results.

Hope this helps

Hey killerman,

Denim jacket would fall under casual rugged-masculine category and they are, indeed, getting back in favor last couple of years (together with denim shirts).

That said, they are quite difficult to pull off. Because they are still not that popular and by wearing one you will fall under one of two categories: "that stylish, cool guy" or "he looks like my creepy uncle, who makes bad jokes"

In which category you would fall would depend on the color, cut and other design aspects (like pockets, wash, etc.) of the jacket and, of course, cut. By default, if it's not cut close to the body you don't want to wear it as our goal is by all means avoid looking like you found that jacket in your dad's closet.

And of course, any mistake in the rest of the outfit would only be emphasized, so the execution needs to be spot on.

That said, if you do pull it off right, you'd look sexy and I plan on expanding my own wardrobe by including some denim upperwear this spring.