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Your Animal Side: What She Truly Needs to be Aroused

animal sideBehind the boastful brain and flashy neocortex of humans lies something much more basic, yet not fully understood. Like all other sexual creatures, we are subject to an instinctive, animalistic sexual desire, which guides us through our day-to-day interactions with the opposite sex.

For other creatures, sex is quite simple.

One of our closest extant relatives, the Bonobo, uses sex quite frequently. They do not engage in sexual monogamy, but rather use sex in all manner of social interactions. They use sex as a greeting, for reproduction, and as a method of bond-forming between women inside a group. In short, they have sex, and they have it often.

This is a far cry from the typical human civilization. Questions of maintaining said amount of sexual activity aside, sex just doesn’t come as easily for us humans. We often place value in social status, mating with the correct people, and avoiding mating with those that would take away from our value, rather than add to it.

Even when you throw out any social status issues, sex just doesn’t come as easily for some men. Why is that?

Ross LeonAbout the Author: Ross Leon

Ross Leon is a member of the Girls Chase Forums and an occasional contributor to Girls Chase. His focus is on body building, relationships, and personal self-development.


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robertnyc's picture

Hey Ross, cool article and nice reminder of some key points. I was just wondering what a better response would be in your example then the logical response of saying I just like girls who take good care of themselves. Thanks!

David Riley's picture

Hey Sync,

I've come across this situation a couple times and I've attacked it several different angles.

Response 1:
Me: Oh no * big smile and laughing*, that's just the beginning of the list.

Response 2:
Me: It's only fair
Girl: What do you mean?
Me: If I take care of myself, I only want my girl to be doing the same.

Response 3:
Me: As strong as I am, I do have a weight limit.

These will normally bring the conversation to a light atmosphere and keep the girl from tearing my head off haha.

Just Dave

uForia's picture

I can relate this very easily to my personal experiences when watching the Youtuber HowToBasic's videos. The sounds that he makes are very primitive and his actions too. I think that's personally why the channel is so popular - because it turns people on without even being sexy on the outset. If you see the comments too, you will occasionally catch the "This video made me horny but i don't know why o.o". Well now I know why!

Nick's picture

great well written article ross

Anonymous's picture

Hello,

Please help me with a quick opinion on this one-

Why is it that when I'm out with a hotter girl, at a cafe for example, at least 80% of girls passing on the street are giving me the "drooling look", whereas when I'm alone or with someone else I'll get that reaction from say 20% of girls passing?

I've read some articles here and I got what you call "good fundamentals", and also I'm good looking and fit. I've been told by a girl during a date "I'm turned on by guys with an aggressive attitude, and you got that, you can even read it in your eyes that you are aggressive, but you also know when to stop it way before it becomes lame". The best reactions I seem to be getting from older/more "experienced" women.

Is it:
1-just the "preselection"?
2-me giving a too aggressive/cold vibe? I'm not trying to "look" in any particular way.

David Riley's picture

Hey Anon,

Yes the reactions that you describe is purely preselection at it's finest. When women see you if a "hot" girl, they figure you're a good catch. One thing I've done is walk with a particularly good looking female friend, just so I could chat up neighboring girls. It's cool because it further adds to your already established preselection.

Just Dave

Anonymous's picture

Thanks David!

Another thing I've noticed is that the better looking I get (fitter) the harder it gets with the shyer kind of girls, and much smoother with the more "extroverted" girls.
I'll start reading now the latest attainability article, maybe it helps...

David Riley's picture

Hey Anon,

That defiantly is the right way to go, some girls may consider you out of your league. Because you look like such an awesome guy and girls get intimidated by you. I'm glad you made that connection, you're on the right path.

Just Dave

David Riley's picture

Hey Anon,

That defiantly is the right way to go, some girls may consider you out of your league. Because you look like such an awesome guy and girls get intimidated by you. I'm glad you made that connection, you're on the right path.

Just Dave

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