How to Have Sex with Thai Girls

If there is any place in the world that will play host to your desire for debauchery, thirst for intrigue, sense of adventure, and search for hospitality, it’s the country that lies in the heart of Southeast Asia. Forget about Vegas. What happens in Thailand, stays in Thailand.

I saw some pretty unspeakable things – both phenomenal and regrettable – while I was living there. But no matter what things were going down, the one truth that was always intact was the fact that there was no shortage of sex with Thai girls.

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Having sex with Thai girls isn’t very hard in terms of the act itself, but there are some things you’ll need to know in order to make it happen and maintain a positive rapport afterward. So today I’m going to break all of these steps down.

The Land of Smiles

The capital city of Thailand is the (in)famous Bangkok. About 100 miles south of the capital is another city that you might not have heard of. It’s called Pattaya. The small, seaside city of Pattaya happens to be the sex tourism capital of the world. There, men fly in from all corners of the globe to pay off prostitutes to fulfill their fantasies, and even hire Thai girls to be their short-term girlfriends.

The point of this post is to make sure that you never become one of these men. There are plenty of ways to sleep with Thai girls without having to spend a dime or put forth any of your valuable resources besides your time. So in order to help you understand what kind of personality Thai girls have, let me explain the environment of Thailand. Thailand is often colloquially referred to as the Land of Smiles. And despite the political turmoil – and what the pundits and media may say about it – the nature of Thai people certainly remains the same.

Thai People are Some of the Friendliest on Earth

Thai people are truly some of the most welcoming people on Earth. If they have something to share with you, they will share it without thinking twice. If you need help, the average Thai person will go great lengths out of their way to be of assistance to you. Because of this fact, the environment of Thailand is very fun-loving and light-hearted (for the most part).

Thailand is Very Safe

The city of Bangkok is currently in a state of violence and unrest. And yet, the rest of Thailand is carrying on business as usual. People are still going to the beach, drinking, rock climbing, and amusing themselves with the incredible exchange rate. The level of violent crime there is virtually non-existent. Honestly, the level of any kind of crime is fairly non-existent. The worst that you’ll see is a drunk fight or someone swindling you out of an extra $20…tough luck.

I lost my $1500 ultrabook on two different occasions in Thailand. One time, no one touched it for several hours. The other time, someone returned it to the owner of the restaurant where I left it. I left my $1000 DSLR in the middle of a train station as I was rushing off to catch a bus. I came back later in the day, and someone had returned it to the police. The police then threw a ceremony for themselves and me in the middle of the train station to celebrate the return of my camera. Truly a unique experience!

So now that I’ve outlined the kind of environment you’ll encounter in Thailand…let’s get to the Thai girls.

What Are Thai Girls Like?

A while back I did a piece on Filipina women. These two countries are not far from one another, and their women do have a lot of similarities. Though, I’d say that Filipinas are bit more spirited than Thai girls, and generally more attractive as well. But comparisons aside, let’s look at what Thai girls are like:


  • thai girlsThin. You’d be hard pressed to find an overweight girl in Thailand. It does happen, but it is pretty rare. Thai girls tend to be pretty stick thin and they are proud of that fact. This is a quality that is highly valued in Southeast Asia. As such, their chests and backsides remain modest at best. So if you’re looking for a girl with a little more curve, you probably want to look elsewhere (Why not try Brazil?).

  • Varying Complexion. Not unlike other parts of Southeast Asia, Thai girls come in many shades. You can find a girl who is as brown as an Indian girl and you can find a girl who is as light as a run-of-the-mill American white girl. Though, interestingly enough, being light-skinned is valued extremely highly in Asia. Even though most Thai people you’ll encounter have fairly brown skin, all of the advertisements and TV/music stars that you will see will be as fair as Snow White. You may even hear people talking about bleaching their skin.

  • Somewhat Attractive. I’d honestly say that Thai girls are probably on the lower end of both the Asian and the global female attractiveness scale. They’re not necessarily ugly by any means, but you’ll rarely find a girl who you’d describe as “really cute” and will almost never encounter a girl who you’d call “stunning”. In fact, as disturbing as it may sound, you’ll often find that a lot of Thai men are much better looking than their female counterparts. Perhaps this is the reason why there is such a high prevalence of ladyboys.


  • Very Nurturing. Thai girls are very traditionally feminine. I think that what they lack in looks they certainly make up for in personality. I had more girls than I can count offer to make me food, buy me a trinket, give me a massage, etc. Thai girls really want to take care of people they like and people who are nice to them.

  • Kind. These girls truly have kind hearts. They always act with great intentions, and they never have an underlying agenda or look to play games with you.

  • Curious. Thai women love learning about the world from new perspectives. They love hearing stories about your home country, or travels you’ve been on, or failures that you’ve experienced. Their energy and vigor will make you feel like the most interesting man in the world.

  • Submissive in Bed. For guys who like girls who are aggressive or take control in bed: you’ll probably be pretty disappointed with Thai girls. I can’t remember a single Thai girl I slept with who was active in bed. They let you take control and do whatever you want to them. This sounds really nice at first, but can definitely be a weird feeling after a while. But, who knows, maybe I just didn’t get enough reference points. But, I think I did.

  • Clingy. On the flipside of them being very nurturing is the fact that they can be quite clingy. However, I must emphasize that it’s not a defect in their personalities, but rather, the nature of Southeast Asian culture. Southeast Asian girls aren’t brought up to have a lot of casual sex, especially with foreigners. So when a girl of this region sleeps with you, she assumes that it’s the start of a budding relationship. In fact, she may even start making plans to move in with you or visit you in your country of origin.

    Some men love this, and even travel to the region for this specific reason. Other men find it terrifying. That’s not to say that Thai girls never have casual sex, but if that is what you are going for, make sure that you make those expectations crystal clear and that you keep up the positive emotions after the deed.

How to Game Thai Girls

Stand Out

There are plenty of guys out there who hear that Thai women are “easy” or are “beneath them”, so they are very aggressive and pretty much try to bully their way into getting sex. Terrible idea.

The best way to attract a Thai girl is to separate yourself from all of the thirsty fools. Treat her like a human being. Smile. Laugh with her. Compliment her. These things will take you a long, long way with Thai girls. Furthermore, if you can separate yourself in other ways, you’ll have droves of them approaching you. These are things like:

And any other way you can think of for separating yourself from the pack. I have to say that this is the single most important tip for sleeping with droves of Thai girls. If you can make yourself appear to be more than just the average dim tourist, these girls will come to you like moths to the flames. Or…moths to the bedroom.

Be Direct

I was in one of the northern tourist villages of Thailand called Pai. I was at this dance bar and fire pit lounge called Ting Tong (which means “crazy” in Thai – definitely go there is you have a chance). I remember there were three Thai girls there, and I started chatting with the three of them and really vibing with one. She was definitely cuter than the average Thai girl. She had spent some time in America without picking up any of the bad habits, so she and I were getting along very well.

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My friend who had given me a moped ride to the bar said that he was heading home. It was a pretty far walk, and I was unsure of just how interested this girl was, so I tried to test the waters a little bit, despite the fact that she said bye to me and assumed I was leaving with him. I pulled her aside to a quieter area, and the following conversation ensued:

Me: Look, it’s been really nice meeting you. And I’d love to keep the night going.

Her: Oh yeah? But isn’t your friend leaving? How are you going to get home?

Me: Well, I’ve honestly been having a great time talking to you. And I wouldn’t mind spending some more time together…if you’d be up for it [wink].

Her: So, you’re saying you like me?

Me: Hah. I’m still deciding. But you’re definitely winning me over!

Her: So, do you like me or not? If not, you can just go home and sleep.

Me: Uh…yeah. Haha. I like you. And I’d like to keep hanging out.

Her: Okay! You can just say that. Let’s keep hanging out!

Me: ….Alright then!

This was about midnight. And after about a seven hour adventure, we ended up having sex. But admittedly, it was pretty forgettable because we were both exhausted and it was very cold that night, as we slept in a paper-thin bamboo hut right by the river.

But the key takeaway from this experience and others like it that really flabbergasted me was: you can and have to be very direct. I tried to use the American style approach on Thai girls and it really didn’t work very well in 90% of the cases. Thai girls are very forward, and will not be shy about saying they like you. And if they are shy, then they will have one of their friends come up and tell you that they like you.

There’s no need for American style negging or aloofness here. Basically, do the opposite of everything you would do in the West. Be cordial, be nice, build her up as much as possible, and be very direct with your intentions and emotions.

Do NOT Chase

If you’re standing out and being direct with her, she will either come with you fully or she won’t. I almost never saw a hard sell or aggressive pull work on a Thai girl. They are taught to make their intentions overt, so if they like you, they will be very clear about that fact. If they don’t, they will try to avoid you. Chasing in this situation only hurts you. And hard pulls are generally moot, so keep that fact in mind.

Be Masculine

Being masculine is a case of doing the opposite of what you’re taught in the West. Obviously if you’re learning how to be a sexy man, being masculine is a quality that you will constantly cultivate and develop. And this quality will serve you very well with Thai girls. In America, oftentimes, when you have mediocre abilities, you’ll find that if a girl likes you enough she will sometimes take on the burden of the interaction and do her best to move things forward for you.

There is nothing of the sort in Thailand. You have to lead 100% of the time, all the time. It’s the masculine-feminine dynamic in one of its purest forms. So, take the reins and know that you have to be in charge of the interactions. And if you get into a relationship with a Thai girl, you have to be the one who steers the direction of the relationship. Basically, with Thai girls, you have to be a man.

Some Closing Notes on Thailand

What Are the Can’t-Miss Cities in Thailand?

Thailand is a traveler’s paradise without question. It’s really a place designed for tourists in nearly every way. But do bear in mind: it’s still a third-world country. So even though some parts of the country may be urbanized and a bit more modern, you still do have to go to the right places if you want to have an unforgettable experience.

So here are the cities you should check out if you want to explore nature, party like you’ll die tomorrow, and have sex with Thai girls.


  • Chiang Mai. Known as the “Rose of the North”. It’s the northern capital of Thailand. Not as sprawling as Bangkok, but definitely fairly modern. It has great night spots, a fantastic market, and all of those tiger sanctuaries that you see in the pictures of people trying to impress their friends.

  • Pai. A tiny village on the northern loop from Chiang Mai. It’s very Rasta, very chill, and very tourist oriented, without being as kitschy or over-the-top as Bangkok. Definitely a good place to meet foreigners and Thai locals alike (the walking street is fantastic), and there are great places to drink and even groove a bit.

Keep in mind that, despite the fact that Thailand is in the tropics, it’s COLD in the north if you’re there during the winter months. The north of Thailand is far enough north that there is an absolutely drastic temperature change when you head up there. So definitely keep that in mind if you’re travelling during the winter months. Many people – including myself – have learned that lesson the hard way.


  • Bangkok. Bangkok is a place you just need to experience. Go to Khaosan Road. It’s a near 24/7 indoor/outdoor party street and district in Bangkok. Don’t only go to Khaosan. But make sure to go to Khaosan.

  • Koh Phan-ngan. “Koh” means island. And Phan-ngan has the infamous half moon and full moon beach parties. These are some of the most unreal experiences you will ever have.

  • Koh Samui. A beautiful island for relaxation and partying.

  • Koh Phi Phi. Probably the most untouched Thai island. You’ll feel like you’ve walked into a nature magazine when you are there. Hell, even getting there on a rickety boat is phenomenal. The women will definitely take care of you as well.

  • Krabi. With its centralized southern location, Krabi is a great southern spot for meeting outgoing people and establishing a hub to explore the rest of the south.

  • Phuket. The capital for outdoor junkies. Rock climbers, surfers, and connoisseurs of sports and illicit materials alike all congregate in Phuket.

  • Pattaya. Go to Pattaya…for the experience.

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Avoid the Ladyboys

What’s a ladyboy? An Asian transvestite. But really, the cultural significance of the ladyboy in Thailand extends much deeper than that. It’s truly considered a third gender over there. Some men like that. And if that’s you, then who am I to judge? But if that’s not you, and you’re not curious, then avoid the ladyboys. And believe me, as I’ve mentioned in all of my references to Southeast Asia – sometimes, it can be trickier than you think.

Thai Girls Love Non-Asian Men

Thai women will marry Thai men, but only if they have to. Thai women absolutely love non-Asian men. They love white men. And they love black men. Thai men (and most Asians) are very mild and can be somewhat effeminate if they are younger, so Thai girls definitely want the energy and boisterousness of foreign blood. Moreover, there is more economic potential with foreign men. And if we know anything about women, it’s that they’re always looking to secure resources. So use this to your advantage.

Don’t Forget About Foreign Girls

I know this is a post about Thai girls…but…don’t forget that there are scores of foreign women travelling through Thailand looking for an adventure and an unforgettable time too.

Wrapping Up

I’ve never heard of anyone having a bad time in Thailand. There are simply too many people to meet, too much havoc to wreak, and too many memories to be made. There’s a reason why everyone goes there. And there’s a reason why many of those people never come back.

So, this post is as much about Thai girls as it is about going and seeing the place they live for yourself. Because if you do, I assure you that in more ways than one, the Land of Smiles will send you off with a shit-eating grin of your own.

Carpe diem,


Colt WilliamsAbout the Author: Colt Williams

Raised in the American Midwest, Colt Williams made a name for himself in dating with a style based on soulful poetic seductions and playful dance floor antics. His style is all about inspiring girls and drawing them into one’s world. You can book phone coaching with him here, or get a copy of his guide to getting laid on Tinder, the product of months of study and experimentation by him on the medium.


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Anonymous's picture

You've spoken about a variety of women.

In terms of the sexual experience which category of girl you prefer and why? American, Brazilian, Filipina, or Thai?

Anonymous's picture

You sounded surprised at the directness of Thai women that asked questions such as "do you like me." Seems very different than what the norm is in America where women seem to treat men like commodities.

Why do you suppose the approach of "being cordial, nice, build her up as much as possible, and be very direct with your intentions and emotions" NOT work very well in America? Why is negging and aloofness the prevailing form of flirtation that is prevalent in the states? I mean women are attracted to dominance and sexiness (seems universal) but what is it that American women prefer as compared to Thai or even Brazilian women, in your opinion?

Like what is going on?

Andreas's picture

Just some quick tips for those who are planning to visit. I've been there 3 times.

1) Don't ever - EVER - give you real home number or work number to a Thai girl if you went there just to have fun and then back to the "real" world. And generally don't disclose too much personal and especially financial information about you or a friend of yours. People generally are indeed nice and friendly but there are some who take advantage of that and spoil the nice image of Thailand.

2) If you decide to marry a Thai girl. Congratulations!!!!! First things first.. head to your bank and withdraw as much as you have. The tradition in Thailand is that men have to carry the responsibility to pay for the marriage party. (yes, this even applies to Thai men too). The reason for this is because the parents and family of the women need to know that you can financially support the girl. (after the marriage you won't be able to but whatever :p)

3) There's this thing in Southeast Asia and generally in Asia which is called "saving face". This means that when a person does something shameful or generally negative he loses face and that it's very bad in Thailand. Thai people will start to receive you very negatively and their willingness to help you and being nice to you will suddenly disappear.
For example: Never shout or express negative emotions (like anger) to another person or an animal or even an object in public!!! The only person who get's to be the ass^ole is gonna be you. Always stay calm, excuse yourself nicely and politely and move on.

splooge's picture

i heard online the thais do not like muslims middle easterns and that true?

Cindy's picture

Not at all

Derek M's picture

Sorry mate, Thai's and their dislike for Muslims are some what true. Especially in the south.

This post states Thai's like Black people. Completely false. Black people or chocolate people as they are called are seen as the lowest of the low. Not for racist reasons. It's just that attractiveness is very much seen as per how white your skin is. ...and how much money you can earn. A Thai person is seen as poor, and uneducated if their skin is very dark and a lighter skinned person more attractive and intelligent. Logic is ...well must be poor skin is dark because they are working outside all the time or Must be rich, work in an office as their skin is white.

Source: Lived in Thailand for 10 years now..and counting!

I do remember a local girl in the village turning up with a rather lovely african american, well to do young chap..but boy oh boy boy she was the talk of the village are everyone talking in disgust about her being with a black man! Top it off..her skin tone was not all that much lighter than her boyfriends. The family accepted him based predomiantly on his finances and ability to "look after the family".

I do remember a memorable quote used by the family to save face, "black man same same farang man (white man, western descent) .. have money!"

milgrim's picture

Can you make a guide for how to get with british girls for relationships long term

lucifer's picture

Hey Colt,

I had this very shy thai girl at home and the situation was a bit strange for me as she almost never spoke.

She just sat there and the dynamics were about me "forcing" a bit the hand, but not too much, and her just standing there half smiling, with her legs one over the other, the coat on and a very closed body language.

She even said "it takes time with Thai girls" and remembering you saying "taught to make intentions overt and hard pulls don't work" I didn't push too hard.

I wonder if I should have though... ?

Anonymous's picture

almost everything in this article is not true, i live in thailand almoust 5 years now. And they are stunning, i never see a ugly thai woman here and they dont like black people and indian people actually they hate them alot... and you say they dont play games with you, that is not true, they are masters of that, they say many good things to you and take care of you but when you dont have money they go away. and many of my friends and me who lived here many years say is the land of one million fake smiles..

Anonymous's picture

OMG!!! hahhaha can't stop laughing when i read this post. I am a girl from Thailand and happen to come across this forum. This forum is some part bullshit and some part true. By the way if you meet a thai girl that is only after your money then that mean that she is not from a proper "social class". Search it, its a big thing in Thailand

Lucas Mizell's picture

I do agree with his opinion on the attractiveness of Thai women. I have been looking at women on Asian Date, from Southeast Asia and China, and I totally agree with him that they are generally not as attractive as women from the Philippines, China and Viet Nam. Though there are a few 9's and 10's, you can find a lot more stunners in these other Asian countries. Which is unfortunate for me as I am planning a move to Thailand.

Nicole's picture

Their smiles are maybe fake but it's anyway pleasant. Would it be better to see women who are angry?
I am myself from Thailand and you should live in Thailand for a little while to understand our culture. I m sure you will have a better opinion then.
I know one who met a woman from my country and he lives here now. He is swedish. He says he will never come back to his country. Actually I know very many such couples.

Anonymous's picture

Hello Chase nd other folks,
I hear from diff people and from internet that Thai girls dont like Indians nd i am planning to gonl to South east asia.So comparative to Farangs and Thai where a nice and fit Indian stands. Does he has same chance of getting laid or cchancrs are dim. Give some tops

Anonymous's picture

To Respond to the question above...based on speaking to a few good looking Westernized Arab/Indian mates of mine,stay away from Thailand if ur not white.The girls are racist and prefer white dudes....this is unfortunately the case because all the bloody stinky FOBs from India ruined it for the rest of us.You want my advice,go somewhere in the world where Indians are scarce...I suggest Latin America,that's on my trip list and Im of Indian origin living in the US.

Rick's picture

A reply to the above post. If you are going to Latin America. Be damn careful. I traveled around Latin America for a year. They are more accepting of black guys and Indians than Thailand, however, the job of Latin women is to separate foreigners from their money. They are gorgeous and will love you as a human ATM machine. Even the ones who work or own businesses are the same. However, far more excepting of different races than Thy as long as you got money. It is that way in most of the world but Latin women I think hold the reward for being Champagne flies, especially the hotter and sexier they are.

Cecilia's picture

Just come to Thailand and be nice. You don't need to be white, just be respectful ... Speaking from a Thai girl

Hector's picture

Am puerto rican an am an American
And want to ask you ,does thai girls like Puerto Ricans men's?

Ted's picture

I'm Thai myself(a guy) and I've hooked up with a lot of people from Thailand, the USA, and many other countries. I've had sex with a lot of women but more than that, I'm here to say or suppress my feelings about the semi bullshit you have composed in your thread/post. Whatever you call it.
Thai women are stunning. Amazing in fact. You just have to be at the right place. Boy, my sister looks amazing but it isn't right. I've met a lot of Thai actresses as I have connections in the film industry and they are amazing. Thai girls are indeed non casual judging by the majority of western girls I've slept with over any other nationality.
Live in my country for 5 years and tell me if you change your mind about anything. Being a tourist there or living there for a short period of time isn't going to make you a genius on interpreting what the nation and its people are really like.
There is a ring of truth in what you say though. ^_~. Keep up the work but with more quantitative information and not just a bunch of opinions. Cheers.

Anonymous's picture

based on what this article is talking about def related about thai girls in general,thai girls are very easy to have sex with,ive got few mates living in thailand and fuck loads of thai actresses,listen he is not handsome and rich in the west,but he told me thai models/actresses slept with foreigners very easily.sigh,everything becomes easy in when youve moved to thailand.indeed this is what we called the land of smiles.easy thai girls.

Wd's picture

I quite hate this guy

Anonymous's picture

Thai ladies same ladies in the world have good and bad, not all of Thai ladies easy. Use your brain for think!!!!

lux's picture

Oh well, I've finally been here a few days and can confirm how basically EVERY girl I've spoken to is strongly racially selective.

Even the ones that "judge by the souls", once asked, would rather not have a "black/indian/chinese and, very often, thai" guy (sure, doesn't mean they aren't curious or they not gonna bang one, but preferences might make it a bit harder or easier depending on your "race").

Of course Europeans find this place funny :D

Anonymous's picture

I must agree on most of what you said, I did not go there for the girls.
It was just by chance that I went there at all, you see my son went on holiday to Phuket with his mate, but they first stayed in Bangkok, his mate did not like it in Bangkok and thought it would all be the same, so he flew back leaving my son there, my wife got very upset, him being there on his own, she made me go out to keep him company.
Well I am a 50 year old skinny guy but quite fit & I love clubbing.
Phuket was GREAT, I think I enjoyed it more than my son, my son met a Thai girl which sort of became his girlfriend the whole time we were there.
Me I went clubbing every night & beach all day ( when not seeing the sights), got to say the girls would not leave me alone, I kept telling them I am not interested that I am a happily married man and not there for girls, even my sons girlfriends friend kept trying to sleep with me, well that lasted just over a week, until the night a very beautiful young girl in a club got chatting & dancing with me until 7 in the morning, well I was abit hyper and enjoying the company that I fell from grace, we ended up in bed all day, and by evening I think I worn her out poor thing (found out she was only 17, not proud of that), after that night, the devil within me was let loose, I gave up saying no and just danced all night pumped all day ( with some sleep in-between), the same girls would come to the beach if I weren’t in the hotel to pamper me (just to have some fun, not sex but fun i.e. chatting & playing on the beach & in the water).
I also gave in to the son’s girlfriend’s friend, because she was always pampering me on the beach and got jealous of the other girls when they told her I had sex with them.
We all had a great time (including the girls) while there, it was a sad affair when we were leaving for the airport, sons girlfriend was in tears and didn’t want to let him go, (he is good looking), and there was me with five girls all crying & hugging me, even I was in tears, two them was so intent of holding on to me that they came with us all the way to Bangkok, so I had another two nights banging away but this time with two of them in my bed, for where else could they stay.
You know me or my son never paid a penny (to the girls), yes I would buy them drinks but I think they bought me more, plus if we ate out they insisted they went half’s. Oh and I did pay for a taxi to take the young girl home because I couldn’t bear to see her go home in those high heels.
Yes I would really like to go back there, the people are so friendly and fun loving, but I don’t think I would be able to afford it now.
My son kept in touch with the girl for over a year but time apart soon faded.
Me I would have liked to have kept in touch but my wife would not have been happy.

tuk's picture

the above girls are dark skinned, ugly with african look that rich thai men do not want. they are all thaitifed, not thai women by blood. they are physically different from women of the same blood as that of the thai king.

mikeaus's picture

I've been to thailand 5 times (I'm 24 years old).

Don't bother with over-thinking gaming thai girls.

Most of them earn $10-$15 a day and are on the hunt for a cute farang guy.

It's gotten to the stage where most of the Thai girls you'll meet don't date thai guys anymore.

Dress well, look halfway decent, approach with a smile, buy her a few drinks, bed her.

It's far simpler than any other country I've been too.

Anonymous's picture

I've lived in Thailand for 10 - 1/2 years and been married for 10 years. I was 60 years old when my wife died of a brain tumor and the last thing I wanted was a relationship with anyone.

I had a 27-year-old Thai girlfriend briefly...just long enough to learn she was all about money. While she stayed with me in my Jomtien Beach condo, I hired another Thai girl to be my live in masseuse, house keeper and cook. My girlfriend loved it because she was, by nature, lazy.

After a couple of unrewarding months, I sent the girlfriend packing. The girl I hired stayed because she'd become my best friend and she was honest. She never asked me for anything. It took me about 4 months before I felt I wanted to take our relationship to the next level.

We got legally married in Chon Buri, move to her village in Udon Thani where I built her a home and had our village ceremony a year later. There has never been a day that I've regretted being with her. She treats me like the most important person in her life and has even fallen out of favor with her family because she always puts me first.

I've had 3 other wives. My first was a 17-year-old from Tehran, Iran (lasted 13 years). My second was a Jewish Austrian ( last 9 months) and my third was from Bogota, Colombia (lasted 25 years). I have to say my Thai wife definitely treats me the best.

During our marriage, even though I'm an old man, I've been hit on by a dozen different girls, one as young as 17-years-old. It's flattering, but I'd never consider cheating on my wife. She's just too wonderful. When I first hired her, she spoke no English, but learned to speak English fluently in only 3 months,

Don't shy away from a lasting relationship with a Thai girl, but first become friends.


i marry thi lady she in charge in bed so the report not true whot i say is true she not shy off body never were underware VERY SHORT SKIRTS

Anonymous's picture

I am an Indian. My first visit to thailand involved Phuket and Bangkok. At both places, I had sex with many thai girls and some relationship extended to email and social media communication.
Your personality, behaviour, communication skills, politeness, respect etc. play more important role than look, color and dressing to woo thai girls. You just need to start off by small talk and you will be the winner.

Alexy's picture

It's my first time coming across this site and it's very interesting to learn about Thai girls. However, I wish to know if they can can faithfully settled in marriage, how do they protect themselves from STDs, and apart from sex and fun, what is their ability in business or entrepreneurship?

LuLu Bob's picture

I enjoyed very much the opinions stated in this article and the comments that followed. I'm a 50 year old white male and live in USA. I had good experiences with Thai women in dating situations in the USA. I also had a Thai roommate in college many years ago. Last year I met a Thai woman from Bangkok online She is very well educated and from a family that owns a successful business in Bangkok. I paid for her airline ticket to come visit me in USA and gave her a tour of my city for ten days. She appeared sincerely grateful and thrilled with the opportunity to visit. She was affectionate, kind, charming, sexy, and fun-loving. And, as stated in the article, she is very direct with regard to attraction and sex. She simply told me that she liked me and asked if I wanted sex with her on the first day of her visit. Following her first visit to USA she has made three subsequent visits and she did not request that I spend a dime for anything. Sex is something that she truly enjoys and she will take command and she will ask for it regularly. I found that it is possible to wake her at any time of night for purposes of sex and she is willing to sleep nude for easier, faster access if the mood strike me. Based upon my dating experiences with other Thai women living in USA this appears to be a consistent characteristic of Thai women if they like a man. "Saving face" is very important within a dating or romantic situation. If a Thai woman suspects that her companion lied or cheated to gain advantage then they will never forgive the offense. So it is important to always remain sincere and truthful with a Thai women if you wish to continue a physical relationship. If a Thai woman likes a man she will be very generous in every way. The Thai woman I met online brought gifts for me and my family during her second visit; she simply charmed their socks off. I am shocked by anyone that claims Thai women are less than beautiful. Thai women are beautiful and fun to look at anytime and anyplace.

Mario's picture

Where should you take a Thai girl for sex after you have paid the bar fee and shes all your for a couple hours or for the entire night

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