How to Have Sex with Filipinas
where the sun is always shining, the landscape is breathtaking... and
the local tropical beauties are always friendly, outgoing, and
energizing, through thick or thin, acceptance or rejection, by day or
by night. This place is no myth... and you can go there any time you
Tucked away in Southeast Asia is a group of islands known as the Philippines. And the women of the Philippines – Filipinas – are the blue ribbons of the entire region. They are cute, they are sexy, and they will always make you feel like a king
If you’ve been considering an Asian adventure, this is the place to be. You will rarely spend a night alone while in the Philippines.
Come take a walk with me, and let me show you how it goes with the Philippines and Filipinas.
My first night in the Philippines was also my first night of sex in
the Philippines. And this is actually quite common for many guys. In my
case, it also involved the least amount of game I’ve ever had to use.
Here’s how it went down…
I was at some random bar fairly late into the night with a friend. I was extremely tired from travelling and wasn’t really focusing on women for the night.
When we walked in, my friend went to the bar to get a drink and I grabbed a seat around the fire pit. While enjoying the warm flames, I overheard two people talking about my American hometown. I looked over and some nerdy, overweight white guy was hitting on a cute Filipina.
So I felt compelled to chime in…
Me: Hey, are you guys from [X city]?
Nerdy Guy: I’m not, but this woman is.
Her: Actually, I’m originally from here. I moved to the US with my husband a few years ago, but he passed away a year ago, so I came back.
Me: Oh. I’m really sorry to hear that…
Her: It’s okay. But I really like people from [that city], you are all so very nice.
Meanwhile, I still kept it friendly. Even though she seemed pretty adjusted to the whole widow thing, Filipinas are fiercely loyal (even after death) and I was just too damn tired. But, she was reminding me of fond hometown memories, so I thought I’d chat her up, while still staying aloof.
After about ten more minutes of talk, the nerdy guy stormed off, and the Filipina got up and proceeded to take a seat right on my lap. I started running my hands all over her out of habit (even a tired man knows when to give rewards).
She then proceeded to:
Order a drink for me and pay for it
Order a bowl of spicy soup, pay for it, and insist that I eat it
Grind all over my crotch (while having a casual conversation) until I got hard
At this point I was feeling pretty awake! Then the last bit of conversation happened:
Her: Are you staying around here?
Me: No (logistics, logistics!), I’m actually at [x place]. What about you?
Her: Yes, but I don’t want people getting the wrong idea if we arrive together. We can meet there, and you can sleep in my bed, but nothing is going to happen, okay?
Me: No problem. I’m exhausted anyway. I could use a nearby place to sleep.
I got no sleep that night. But it was a fantastic welcome to the country.
What Makes Filipinas So Unique?
There are many factors that set Filipinas apart from other Asian women, and just other women in general. It’s an intriguing mix of cultural and physical factors that end up making them wonderful partners for able men like you:
They are taught womanly grace. While growing up, all Filipinas are taught what is known as “Delikadesa” or womanly honor. This means that they take pride in having integrity, in working hard, in never acting lewd or starting a fight in public, and in being reliable partners for the men in their lives.
They speak amazing English. This is actually something you don’t really think about until you step foot in a non-English-speaking nation. I know Chase prefers nonverbal interaction and remaining relatively “exotic” when seducing women abroad, but I enjoy connecting with women and the ability to screen them through conversation. Most Filipinas learn English from a young age, so working your charms and getting them to invest in you should be no problem.
They are attractive. Now, as in most places in Southeast Asia, you won’t find too many women here who are absolute bombshells. But a very high average of Filipinas are generally cute to fairly beautiful, and they’re everywhere. I cannot stress the level of abundance of cute girls in this country enough. It’s a sight to behold.
They are wildly sexual. Maybe they’re not quite on the level of Brazilian women, but they are definitely the most sexual in all of Asia. Filipinas will give you romps in the sheets you won’t be likely to forget.
They are generally well-educated. This mostly applies to the bigger cities, but if you encounter a Filipina in a main hub, she is likely to be intelligent, discerning and often fairly well-traveled.
They are religious. This is a big selling point for a lot of Western men. The Philippines is the only nation in Asia that is predominantly Christian. Filipinas are often strongly religious, which can create a strong spiritual bond for those who enjoy religious girls.
They are fiercely loyal. If you date or marry a Filipina, she will definitely be a ride-or-die woman who will stick with you through any situation. The woman that I slept with that first night in Manila told me that I was the first person she’d gone to bed with since her husband. I showed her a good night, but I could tell that she was still thinking very fondly of him.
They are traditional. They expect men to be men and women to be women. They take pride in creating a positive home environment, and always put the needs of family over careers, money, or material objects.
They are really fun. Girls in the Philippines are pretty much up for anything. They don’t take themselves too seriously, they have a genuine zest for life, and they will happily go on any adventure that you lead them to.
They are generally kind and great caregivers. One of the longest relationships that I’ve ever had was with a Filipina, and I really didn’t appreciate just how good she was to me at the time. We lived about an hour apart, and she would drive to and from my place without any hesitation pretty much whenever I asked her to (and again, I always gave her a proper reward). After sleeping together, she would always offer to make me food or would even read me a chapter from my favorite novel! I took it for granted – and even went as far as being put off by it – because I was so used to the normal Western girls I dated who made absurd demands of me, which I never refused because I was a Grade A nice guy. But years later I’ve come to appreciate just how important a tender woman is.
All that sounds pretty good, you say? So how does one go about
a Filipina of his own, you ask? Well, let’s have us a peek…
Step 1: Fall in Love with Travel
As noted in the first article in this series, you must have a desire for travel before you can bed the beauties of the world. I’ve seen a lot of men who just go through the motions when they’re on trips; they’ll stay in a generic hotel, see a couple of landmarks, and then leave thinking that their destination was no better than the home they left.
But the guys who have the most fun, and the most success with foreign women, are the ones who have a lust for travel. They want to learn about the culture they are in, interact with people, break free from the beaten path, and return home with some damn good stories to tell. Like the time I had sex with a girl in a hostel dormitory with 12 other people in close quarters… but ah… a story for another day.
Those guys are usually ones who are passionate about life in general. Because let me tell you something… travelling to a completely new place halfway around the world is terrifying – especially if it’s your first time. But you’re eager to get into the swing of things and be aggressive and decisive, you will create an experience for yourself that you’ll remember ‘til old age.
So, if you decide you want to venture to the Philippines…
Step 2: Start in a Big City
You can often find decent success in some of the small coastal regions if you’re looking for some beach lovin’. But if you want to find ridiculous success amid a plethora of women, go to one of the big cities like Manila or Caloocan, where women are abundant (and a lack of family members looking over shoulders to play moral police is nice).
Step 3: Go Anywhere and Approach
And yes, I do mean anywhere. In the Philippines day game is your friend. You can meet girls on the street, in restaurants, in stores, anywhere. Heck, night game is your friend too. Feel free to try out the usual go-to venues like bars and clubs. Filipinas are just so very friendly (and all want Westerners). Even if they end up not being interesting in a sexual encounter, they will always provide you with positive energy and some type of stimulating interaction.
And if you find one you like…
Step 4: Connect with Her
The Philippines is another one of those places where aloofness and subtlety is really not necessary. When women like you, they will often tell you exactly how they feel about you (sometimes they may have a friend do it if they’re shy). And they will often ask for your Facebook, since number closing is frequently illogical in a foreign country.
That’s not to say that you have to invest as much as her or write her a love poem, but be sure to:
Step 5: Always Go For Sex
Always go for sex. You won’t
necessarily always get sex…
girl may care about another guy and want to hold out for him in some
way or another. But if she is down
for it, there will be virtually no
you give her plausible deniability and dominate the
Filipino culture has very little of the moral judgment against sex
that is present in much of the West (and especially in most of the
Anglophone countries - it’s something of an outlier in that regard), so
you’ll have surprisingly few moral or emotional reservations to
overcome - much of the resistance you’re accustomed to in the West
simply isn’t here. Which means, of course, that if a woman wants you,
things are pretty simple.
That means you have so much to gain, but virtually nothing to lose. So keep pushing things toward their natural end, and you are sure to be rewarded.
Note: Most Filipinas are Deeply Monogamous
Despite the fact that these beauties are in great abundance, there is a definite chance that you will be one of only a couple men she has slept with. One-night stands do happen, but I’ve also known of a handful of people who have gone to Philippines and come back with stories of having had a serious girlfriend. Or come back with the girlfriend herself. Or even come back with a wife.
So, what if you want a Filipina girlfriend?
- Follow the exact same process outlined above
- Ask her to come out with you again
- Sleep with her 1 or 2 more times (often one will do the trick)
- Ask her to be your girlfriend
Alternatively, if you are really
feeling it and want to cut down on
the entire process…
- Follow the steps from above
- After you sleep with her, ask her to be your girlfriend
This second method is also surprisingly effective. Filipinas strongly believe in loyalty and monogamy. So don’t be surprised if a girl gets really attached to you after you sleep with her. And heck, don’t be surprised if you get more than a little attached yourself!
Note #2: Avoid the Ladyboys (and Hookers)
This may seem like a joke… but it’s not. Southeast Asia is chock full of ladyboys (from guys who just dress up like women to males who actually have sex change surgery). It’s basically considered a third gender over there. And the thing about Southeast Asian men is that they can actually appear surprisingly feminine.
Oh, how many times I’ve heard Western men say “That’s stupid! What kind of idiot would go home with a girl who is actually a guy” only to return with horrified looks on their faces when they find out that their lady friend was not all “she” was cracked up to be.
So be careful. Avoid super touristy bars where there are more likely to be ladyboys and hookers. There are more fun spots anyway. If something seems amiss with your girl, it probably is. If you’re not sure, ask someone, they will almost always give you an honest answer.
In terms of hookers, I’ve known guys who have been hit on by hookers and simply avoided the topic and money and got some lovin’ gratis. If that sort of thing floats your boat, go for it. If not, there are plenty of real, non-hooker girls in the big cities. So if your alarm bells are going off, move on son!
Note #3: Let Her Down Very, Very Easy
If you find yourself with a girl who is deeply attached to you and you don’t feel the same way, let her down easy. Filipinas feel very ashamed about unrequited love, and her family may even come after you if you treat her poorly!
So show her that you’re a caring man, and be gentle if you have to cut the cord.
Note #4: Watch Out for Jealous Filipino Men
Filipinas love Western men, and Filipino men are fully aware of this fact. Some of them hate the fact that Western men travel to their country and go around plucking all of their women.
If you find yourself being confronted by a Filipino man, especially if he’s drunk, do only these two things:
Let the girl handle it. I know it’s counterintuitive and you want to be manly and all, but most Filipino men walk around with knives and/or guns somewhere on their person. They last thing they want to hear is someone Western guy trying to be macho or slick to get himself out of the situation. And if they don’t speak great English, it may be hard to convey your point anyway. They will always be pretty gentle with women, and they can communicate perfectly, so let the girl try to talk down any threatening men. And if that doesn’t work…
Walk away. It’s not worth it to risk your life over some girl that you want to get between the sheets. Kindly apologize, excuse yourself, and live to play another day.
Wrapping Up on Filipinas
Keep your nose clean and stay away from dangerous situations (and
“women” that aren’t quite what was advertised), and you’ll have an
absolute blast in the Philippines. The women really are some of the
most friendly women you will meet anywhere in the world, and they
really do have few qualms about sex.
This nation of islands will without a doubt leave a very strong impression on you if you explore everything that it has to offer. It’s all at your fingertips: the food, the beaches, the surf… and of course… the women.
Many a wanderer has found a new, warm beauty to share his bed with here every single night. Just stay vigilant and stay smart, and you’ll always have a good time.
So suit up, buckle up, and prepare for the ride of your life - a great time with a cute Filipina is a not-to-be-missed experience.
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