How to Have Sex with Brazilian Women
Brazilian women are some of the most beautiful, fit, passionate and insanely sexy women you could ever encounter.
Every man has a secret fantasy about a sleeping with a Brazileira. Their tan skin, their exotic accents, their perfect beach bodies… how could you not fantasize? But today, I’m going to show you how to turn that fantasy into reality.
Brazilian girls aren’t easy, but they are chill, and love sex. So if you’re willing to put in a bit of work, you’ll get a whole bucket load of reward.
Since I spend a lot of my time visiting the world’s most beautiful locations, this post will be my first installment of periodic articles on seducing the women of this wonderful world; outlining what they are actually like, and giving you an inside look on what to expect.
Now, onto Brazilian women…
Have you ever encountered a woman who was unlike any other you’ve seen before? You know that feeling. She hypnotizes you. She makes your heart speed up. She forces you to wonder what you’ve been doing with your love life before her.
I had this feeling when I encountered my first Brazilian girl.
I’d visited a nightclub I frequented at the time, not far from my hometown. As I walked in, I took a few minutes to look around and establish my presence before fully immersing myself in the venue. As I hit the dance floor, I saw the usual:
Sloppy, familiar bar girls
Hordes of thirsty men
And a few fresh, nothing-out-of-the-ordinary faces
But then, all of sudden… I saw someone entirely unique. Everything about her was different. The way she fluidly moved her body; the sexual energy that was dripping from her very being; her tan, flawless complexion – I had never seen anything like it.
I immediately pointed her out to my wingman and started wondering to myself: “Where is this girl from?” There was no way in hell she was American. She looked like she was Spanish, but part North African, but also part European – I was both confused and mesmerized.
I decided to approach her using my dance floor game, and she received me at once and completely naturally. We proceeded to have a sexually charged dancing exchange, before I finally decided to ask her where she was from. “I’m from Brazil!” she said, in a wonderfully sexy accent.
And suddenly it all made sense. Everything I had heard from friends, media and the Internet seemed to be manifested in this girl. She was:
An amazing dancer
Easygoing and friendly
Sexy beyond words
After a few more minutes of lively conversation, I did something
that would be ill advised with most American women…
But when you’re inexperienced and are talking to a beautiful girl, you do the first thing that comes to mind, right? I told her exactly how I felt. I told her that she was the most unique girl I had met in quite a while, and I told her that I found her very attractive.
And much to my delight (and slight surprise): she loved it. She told me that she felt the exact same way about me.
And after this moment… and after this night… I knew that I had to get down to Brazil. I knew that the girls were different. And a few years later, so it was. I was surrounded by Brazilian beauties, and life was never the same. I soon realized that the Brazilian girl I had met in America was only the tip of the iceberg.
So… what are things like on the other side? What are Brazilian women actually like?
Nothing like Western Women
The first thing – and perhaps the most important thing – that you have to understand is that Brazilian women are nothing like Western women. In order to get Western girls, Western men use:
In the West – especially in the U.S. – women are taught to cage their sexuality and always appear chaste. This is the source of the Madonna/whore paradox in the minds of men. We Western men want women who will freely sleep with us, but want to marry a girl who has only had a couple of sexual partners.
But none of this exists in Brazil. If you try to use your Western game on Brazilian women, you will fail. Brazilian girls are not down for that nonsense. Things in Brazil are as traditional as can be:
Women are feminine and follow the man’s lead
Everyone grows up being very sexually open
Now, not all Brazilian men have game, but they all approach women as naturally and as readily as they breathe air.
Brazil is a very community-oriented country, so people grow up being
social, and men and women learn their roles early. Personal connection
is heavily stressed, and people readily get together to have a good
time. And I’m sure all of that sun and surf doesn’t hurt either…
Very Sexually Open
Everything that Brazilian girls do exudes sexuality: the way they walk, the way they look at you, the way they talk… it’s unreal. Even thinking about it, it’s so hard to describe. But it’s definitely something that every man should experience.
You can be walking down Copacabana – one of the most famous beaches in Rio de Janeiro – and see people having beach sex so often that you start to tune it out.
And with Brazilian girls, things are always cut and dry.
If you approach one and she is not into you, she will kindly rebuff you, and move on.
But if she is into you, she will do everything in her feminine power to help you.
If you walk up to a girl on the streets of São Paulo and ask her what time it is, she will start chatting you up and keeping the interaction going if she likes you. This is very different from American girls, who will usually entertain your advances, but may or may not help you, all the while hoping you don’t give them a reason to reject you.
This is probably because women are actually fairly socially awkward in America. When they are approached, they are assessing the guy for his creepiness, weighing him against their social reputation, evaluating his viability as a lover, and dealing with a million other stresses and worries in their mind.
On the other hand, Brazilian girls love getting approached. I cannot stress this enough. That’s why going out to get girls is called “hunting” in Brazil.
The first experience I had hunting was with a Brazilian guy named Pablo. “You have to show your dominance” is what he kept saying to me. Now, I like to think of myself as a pretty dominant man. But unless I’m out at a dance club, my style is pretty low-key.
Pablo watched me strike out a couple of times, and basically gave me a let-me-show-you-how-it’s-done look. I then saw him walk up to a pair of girls and get away with things that would get the police called on you in America - and within a few minutes of meeting them, too. He aggressively pulled one in, putting his hands all over her body, and kissed her (which is looked upon as lightly as a handshake in Brazil). Witnessing this interaction shocked my naïve Western brain.
I had to step up my game. After a short stroll, Pablo and I soon walked up to a pair of sun-bathed blondes who were tanning (as if they needed it). He made some comment about how he liked the design on their towels, and after a few laughs, we sat down. I told my girl I loved her eyes.
After a little more idle conversation, Pablo was running his hands all over his girl. I figured I should follow his lead, so I started stroking my girl’s shoulders, and she gave me “the look.” You know that look… and before I knew it… we were making out… and it turned into a great afternoon.
I knew Pablo was onto something… and that I still had much to learn.
Physically Varied and Beautiful
Brazilian people are a mixture of European, African and indigenous South American blood, so you will encounter every manner of woman in Brazil: blondes, brunettes, olive-skinned girls, black girls – everything you could ask for:
Some men I know who are well versed in the ways of the South American women say that Brazilian girls are not as attractive as the women in countries like Argentina and Ecuador. I have little experience with women from these countries, but if this is the case, then they must be stunning, because Brazilian women will not disappoint.
However, what we all can agree on is the fact that Brazilian women are the most sexual women you will ever encounter. They have incredible bodies, and they know how to use them. And when you take one to bed for the first time, you will very quickly realize it is the best, most passionate sex you have ever had in your life.
Easygoing, Yet High Maintenance
Brazilian girls, just like all Brazilians, are very easygoing. They like to take time to enjoy the simple pleasures of life, and expect their guys to do the same. They love long days spent on the beach or exploring the city, and if you ask one to meet up at 4pm, she may very well show up at 6pm, and won’t think anything of it.
That being said, women from Brazil are also very high maintenance. You will only ever see Brazilian girls in three modes:
Bikinis for the beach
Spandex for the gym
Dressed to the nines
If they are not doing one of the first two, they never set foot in public without makeup, form-fitting clothing, and heels. They take many hours out of every month to get their hair and nails done, and they are very concerned about staying in shape. This is very important to keep in mind if you ever consider dating one.
And on the subject of dating...
Fiery and Jealous in Relationships
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, and Brazilian girlfriends and wives are the epitome of this saying. In addition to being the sexiest women you will ever encounter, if you happen to date or marry one, they will be some the most jealous women you will ever encounter.
All of their passion comes with a price. If they can show passionate love toward you, they can just as easily show passionate and seething fury toward you, too.
In the West, a large part of keeping your girlfriend happy, your relationship healthy and preventing cheating is keeping your skills sharp with other girls and making sure that your significant other knows that if push came to shove, you could live without her.
However, Brazilian women are much different. If you want a relationship with a Brazilian girl, you must be aware of the fact that she will love and care for you unconditionally – as long as you remain masculine.
As long as you…
Cook for you
Take care of you
Stay hot in the sheets
Happily remain in her feminine role
She doesn’t need you to prove that you’re “still sharp” by flirting with other girls. In fact, if you do happen to do that, or go as far as to cheat on her, you may end up like this Brazilian husband who got his penis sawed off after his wife caught him cheating (stories like this are the reason why I never let girls tie me up). Proceed with caution.
So now I have you sufficiently excited about Brazilian women, and you’re chomping at the bit to experience these sensual, fiery, exotic women for yourself. What do you need to do to get Brazilian girls into your bed?
Step 1: Erase Your Fear of Travel
I know a lot of men who have always wanted to go to Brazil and experience its women firsthand. Although they know it would be a life-changing experience (not to mention the easiest route to success), they let their preconceptions about the country prevent them from actually doing it. I used to be one of these unfortunately fearful men.
Allow me to dispel those preconceptions.
Western media tells us that if you go to Brazil, or anywhere in South America for that matter, you will be robbed, or kidnapped, or caught up in a civil war, or otherwise put in some great peril.
However, São Paolo and Rio are just like any other big city in the world. If you have basic common sense, you’ll be fine.
Would you go to the ghetto neighborhoods of the Bronx in the middle of the night? Of course not. Then don’t go to the Rio beaches at night, which are full of muggers. And stay away from the favelas (slums) like your life depends on it (which it usually does). The problem is that so many westerners travel to foreign countries being completely ignorant of the culture and precautions they need to take, and then complain that the country is full of thieves and vagrants when they inevitably get themselves into trouble.
So if you’ve always wanted to go to Brazil and have common sense (which all GC readers do), then go, and have an amazing time. It’s sunny, it’s picturesque, it’s colorful, it’s culturally striking – it’s unforgettable.
While there are Brazilian communities in many major cities, the first key step to getting a Brazilian girl, really, is being in Brazil surrounded by its women. A lot of men are deceived and unnecessarily scared about going. Set yourself free.
Step 2: Start in Rio
People who frequent Brazil seem to be in agreement that Rio is the best place for the purpose of courting Brazilian girls. That’s not to say that São Paolo is not a great city, or that the coastal towns won’t treat you well, but Rio is warm, Rio is sexy, and Rio is the place to be.
And once you set foot in Brazil, you will realize that Brazilian girls are sexual, but they are not easy. It’s very unlikely that you’ll sleep with a Brazilian girl the first time you meet her. And that goes for the ones in Brazil and a good portion of the ones you’ll encounter abroad as well. But don’t despair, and do be persistent.
After a few weeks, I got the process down. But if you know what to do going into it, you can cut that process learning curve to just a few days.
Step 3: Go to a Bar or a Beach
The seductions will typically start in one of two places: the bar or the beach. It can start on the street, but even then it will end up in one of those two places. You start by going in one of the vibrant Rio spots like Lapa or Gavea on a Thursday-Saturday. You walk around until you spot a girl that you find attractive. Maybe she’s the blonde tanning by herself on the beach, or the brunette standing right by the dance floor with her friends.
Step 4: Approach
You walk right up to her like the sexy man you are and say anything to her.
Compliment her dress
Talk about the music
Talk about the weather
Even ask her to teach you a Portuguese phrase
But no matter what you do, you will know in three milliseconds whether or not she’s attracted to you. If she’s not, no problem, you don’t take it personally and remember that even in Brazil it’s a numbers game. And the numbers are in your favor because there are 4 million more women than men.
You do a few more approaches until you do find one that is attracted you. And if she is attracted, she will come on strong. She will be touching you, laughing at every dumb thing you say, and looking at you like you’re the only man she’s ever seen. Rather than cockblock you and her, her friends will mysteriously vanish and facilitate an even more intimate interaction.
Step 5: Escalate Physically
After a few minutes of talking to her you should remember that this is Brazil, and that your hands should be all over her to reward her for all of the positive attention that she’s giving you. At this point, you kiss her, because all Brazilian girls expect guys to kiss them when there is a mutual attraction. After a few more minutes of kissing her and running your hands all over her slim body, you invite her home. She will probably say no. But she will give you her number and expect you to follow up so that she doesn’t have to say no in the future.
Step 6: Meet Up Again and Close the Deal
You text her a day or two later and ask her out to a bar. She agrees. You meet her at the bar, and see her in another stunning outfit. You two sit down and sip a draught beer or a caipirinha (Brazil’s national sugar cane cocktail).
After an hour or two of good conversation and kissing and touching her, you ask her to go for a walk. She agrees, and you take a short walk and continue to sexually escalate while telling her a captivating story. Afterward, you invite her home again. She resists… weakly. You give her a manhandle kiss and she agrees.
You take her home or to your hotel, kiss her again within a few minutes of walking in, and overcome any last bit of token resistance as you prepare to have one of the best nights of your life.
And then you rinse… and repeat for as long as you stay.
And then you know Brazilian women. You love Brazilian women. You sleep with Brazilian women. Welcome.
And when in Brazil…
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