How to Have Sex with Brazilian Women


brazilian womenBrazilian women are some of the most beautiful, fit, passionate and insanely sexy women you could ever encounter.

Every man has a secret fantasy about a sleeping with a Brazileira. Their tan skin, their exotic accents, their perfect beach bodies… how could you not fantasize? But today, I’m going to show you how to turn that fantasy into reality.

Brazilian girls aren’t easy, but they are chill, and love sex. So if you’re willing to put in a bit of work, you’ll get a whole bucket load of reward.

Since I spend a lot of my time visiting the world’s most beautiful locations, this post will be my first installment of periodic articles on seducing the women of this wonderful world; outlining what they are actually like, and giving you an inside look on what to expect.

Now, onto Brazilian women…


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Have you ever encountered a woman who was unlike any other you’ve seen before? You know that feeling. She hypnotizes you. She makes your heart speed up. She forces you to wonder what you’ve been doing with your love life before her.

I had this feeling when I encountered my first Brazilian girl.

I’d visited a nightclub I frequented at the time, not far from my hometown. As I walked in, I took a few minutes to look around and establish my presence before fully immersing myself in the venue. As I hit the dance floor, I saw the usual:

  • Club queens

  • Sloppy, familiar bar girls

  • Hordes of thirsty men

  • And a few fresh, nothing-out-of-the-ordinary faces

But then, all of sudden… I saw someone entirely unique. Everything about her was different. The way she fluidly moved her body; the sexual energy that was dripping from her very being; her tan, flawless complexion – I had never seen anything like it.

I immediately pointed her out to my wingman and started wondering to myself: “Where is this girl from?” There was no way in hell she was American. She looked like she was Spanish, but part North African, but also part European – I was both confused and mesmerized.

I decided to approach her using my dance floor game, and she received me at once and completely naturally. We proceeded to have a sexually charged dancing exchange, before I finally decided to ask her where she was from. “I’m from Brazil!” she said, in a wonderfully sexy accent.

And suddenly it all made sense. Everything I had heard from friends, media and the Internet seemed to be manifested in this girl. She was:

  • Gorgeous

  • An amazing dancer

  • Easygoing and friendly

  • Sexy beyond words

After a few more minutes of lively conversation, I did something that would be ill advised with most American women…

But when you’re inexperienced and are talking to a beautiful girl, you do the first thing that comes to mind, right? I told her exactly how I felt. I told her that she was the most unique girl I had met in quite a while, and I told her that I found her very attractive.

And much to my delight (and slight surprise): she loved it. She told me that she felt the exact same way about me.

And after this moment… and after this night… I knew that I had to get down to Brazil. I knew that the girls were different. And a few years later, so it was. I was surrounded by Brazilian beauties, and life was never the same. I soon realized that the Brazilian girl I had met in America was only the tip of the iceberg.

So… what are things like on the other side? What are Brazilian women actually like?


Nothing like Western Women

The first thing – and perhaps the most important thing – that you have to understand is that Brazilian women are nothing like Western women. In order to get Western girls, Western men use:

In the West – especially in the U.S. – women are taught to cage their sexuality and always appear chaste. This is the source of the Madonna/whore paradox in the minds of men. We Western men want women who will freely sleep with us, but want to marry a girl who has only had a couple of sexual partners.

But none of this exists in Brazil. If you try to use your Western game on Brazilian women, you will fail. Brazilian girls are not down for that nonsense. Things in Brazil are as traditional as can be:

  1. Men are powerful, masculine and aggressive

  2. Women are feminine and follow the man’s lead

  3. Everyone grows up being very sexually open

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Now, not all Brazilian men have game, but they all approach women as naturally and as readily as they breathe air.

Brazil is a very community-oriented country, so people grow up being social, and men and women learn their roles early. Personal connection is heavily stressed, and people readily get together to have a good time. And I’m sure all of that sun and surf doesn’t hurt either…


Very Sexually Open

Everything that Brazilian girls do exudes sexuality: the way they walk, the way they look at you, the way they talk… it’s unreal. Even thinking about it, it’s so hard to describe. But it’s definitely something that every man should experience.

You can be walking down Copacabana – one of the most famous beaches in Rio de Janeiro – and see people having beach sex so often that you start to tune it out.

And with Brazilian girls, things are always cut and dry.

  • If you approach one and she is not into you, she will kindly rebuff you, and move on.

  • But if she is into you, she will do everything in her feminine power to help you.

If you walk up to a girl on the streets of São Paulo and ask her what time it is, she will start chatting you up and keeping the interaction going if she likes you. This is very different from American girls, who will usually entertain your advances, but may or may not help you, all the while hoping you don’t give them a reason to reject you.

This is probably because women are actually fairly socially awkward in America. When they are approached, they are assessing the guy for his creepiness, weighing him against their social reputation, evaluating his viability as a lover, and dealing with a million other stresses and worries in their mind.

On the other hand, Brazilian girls love getting approached. I cannot stress this enough. That’s why going out to get girls is called “hunting” in Brazil.

The first experience I had hunting was with a Brazilian guy named Pablo. “You have to show your dominance” is what he kept saying to me. Now, I like to think of myself as a pretty dominant man. But unless I’m out at a dance club, my style is pretty low-key.

Pablo watched me strike out a couple of times, and basically gave me a let-me-show-you-how-it’s-done look. I then saw him walk up to a pair of girls and get away with things that would get the police called on you in America - and within a few minutes of meeting them, too. He aggressively pulled one in, putting his hands all over her body, and kissed her (which is looked upon as lightly as a handshake in Brazil). Witnessing this interaction shocked my naïve Western brain.

I had to step up my game. After a short stroll, Pablo and I soon walked up to a pair of sun-bathed blondes who were tanning (as if they needed it). He made some comment about how he liked the design on their towels, and after a few laughs, we sat down. I told my girl I loved her eyes.

After a little more idle conversation, Pablo was running his hands all over his girl. I figured I should follow his lead, so I started stroking my girl’s shoulders, and she gave me “the look.” You know that look… and before I knew it… we were making out… and it turned into a great afternoon.

I knew Pablo was onto something… and that I still had much to learn.


Physically Varied and Beautiful

Brazilian people are a mixture of European, African and indigenous South American blood, so you will encounter every manner of woman in Brazil: blondes, brunettes, olive-skinned girls, black girls – everything you could ask for:


Some men I know who are well versed in the ways of the South American women say that Brazilian girls are not as attractive as the women in countries like Argentina and Ecuador. I have little experience with women from these countries, but if this is the case, then they must be stunning, because Brazilian women will not disappoint.

However, what we all can agree on is the fact that Brazilian women are the most sexual women you will ever encounter. They have incredible bodies, and they know how to use them. And when you take one to bed for the first time, you will very quickly realize it is the best, most passionate sex you have ever had in your life.


Easygoing, Yet High Maintenance

Brazilian girls, just like all Brazilians, are very easygoing. They like to take time to enjoy the simple pleasures of life, and expect their guys to do the same. They love long days spent on the beach or exploring the city, and if you ask one to meet up at 4pm, she may very well show up at 6pm, and won’t think anything of it.

That being said, women from Brazil are also very high maintenance. You will only ever see Brazilian girls in three modes:

  1. Bikinis for the beach

  2. Spandex for the gym

  3. Dressed to the nines

If they are not doing one of the first two, they never set foot in public without makeup, form-fitting clothing, and heels. They take many hours out of every month to get their hair and nails done, and they are very concerned about staying in shape. This is very important to keep in mind if you ever consider dating one.

And on the subject of dating...


Fiery and Jealous in Relationships

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, and Brazilian girlfriends and wives are the epitome of this saying. In addition to being the sexiest women you will ever encounter, if you happen to date or marry one, they will be some the most jealous women you will ever encounter.

All of their passion comes with a price. If they can show passionate love toward you, they can just as easily show passionate and seething fury toward you, too.

In the West, a large part of keeping your girlfriend happy, your relationship healthy and preventing cheating is keeping your skills sharp with other girls and making sure that your significant other knows that if push came to shove, you could live without her.

However, Brazilian women are much different. If you want a relationship with a Brazilian girl, you must be aware of the fact that she will love and care for you unconditionally – as long as you remain masculine.

As long as you…

  1. Continue to lead

  2. Take her out

  3. Listen to her

  4. Be decisive

  5. Screw her like there’s no tomorrow

She will…

  1. Cook for you

  2. Take care of you

  3. Stay hot in the sheets

  4. Happily remain in her feminine role

She doesn’t need you to prove that you’re “still sharp” by flirting with other girls. In fact, if you do happen to do that, or go as far as to cheat on her, you may end up like this Brazilian husband who got his penis sawed off after his wife caught him cheating (stories like this are the reason why I never let girls tie me up). Proceed with caution.


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So now I have you sufficiently excited about Brazilian women, and you’re chomping at the bit to experience these sensual, fiery, exotic women for yourself. What do you need to do to get Brazilian girls into your bed?


Step 1: Erase Your Fear of Travel

brazilian womenI know a lot of men who have always wanted to go to Brazil and experience its women firsthand. Although they know it would be a life-changing experience (not to mention the easiest route to success), they let their preconceptions about the country prevent them from actually doing it. I used to be one of these unfortunately fearful men.

Allow me to dispel those preconceptions.

Western media tells us that if you go to Brazil, or anywhere in South America for that matter, you will be robbed, or kidnapped, or caught up in a civil war, or otherwise put in some great peril.

However, São Paolo and Rio are just like any other big city in the world. If you have basic common sense, you’ll be fine.

Would you go to the ghetto neighborhoods of the Bronx in the middle of the night? Of course not. Then don’t go to the Rio beaches at night, which are full of muggers. And stay away from the favelas (slums) like your life depends on it (which it usually does). The problem is that so many westerners travel to foreign countries being completely ignorant of the culture and precautions they need to take, and then complain that the country is full of thieves and vagrants when they inevitably get themselves into trouble.

So if you’ve always wanted to go to Brazil and have common sense (which all GC readers do), then go, and have an amazing time. It’s sunny, it’s picturesque, it’s colorful, it’s culturally striking – it’s unforgettable.

While there are Brazilian communities in many major cities, the first key step to getting a Brazilian girl, really, is being in Brazil surrounded by its women. A lot of men are deceived and unnecessarily scared about going. Set yourself free.


Step 2: Start in Rio

People who frequent Brazil seem to be in agreement that Rio is the best place for the purpose of courting Brazilian girls. That’s not to say that São Paolo is not a great city, or that the coastal towns won’t treat you well, but Rio is warm, Rio is sexy, and Rio is the place to be.

And once you set foot in Brazil, you will realize that Brazilian girls are sexual, but they are not easy. It’s very unlikely that you’ll sleep with a Brazilian girl the first time you meet her. And that goes for the ones in Brazil and a good portion of the ones you’ll encounter abroad as well. But don’t despair, and do be persistent.

After a few weeks, I got the process down. But if you know what to do going into it, you can cut that process learning curve to just a few days.

Onward…


Step 3: Go to a Bar or a Beach

The seductions will typically start in one of two places: the bar or the beach. It can start on the street, but even then it will end up in one of those two places. You start by going in one of the vibrant Rio spots like Lapa or Gavea on a Thursday-Saturday. You walk around until you spot a girl that you find attractive. Maybe she’s the blonde tanning by herself on the beach, or the brunette standing right by the dance floor with her friends.


Step 4: Approach

You walk right up to her like the sexy man you are and say anything to her.

You can…

  • Compliment her dress

  • Talk about the music

  • Talk about the weather

  • Even ask her to teach you a Portuguese phrase

But no matter what you do, you will know in three milliseconds whether or not she’s attracted to you. If she’s not, no problem, you don’t take it personally and remember that even in Brazil it’s a numbers game. And the numbers are in your favor because there are 4 million more women than men.

You do a few more approaches until you do find one that is attracted you. And if she is attracted, she will come on strong. She will be touching you, laughing at every dumb thing you say, and looking at you like you’re the only man she’s ever seen. Rather than cockblock you and her, her friends will mysteriously vanish and facilitate an even more intimate interaction.


Step 5: Escalate Physically

After a few minutes of talking to her you should remember that this is Brazil, and that your hands should be all over her to reward her for all of the positive attention that she’s giving you. At this point, you kiss her, because all Brazilian girls expect guys to kiss them when there is a mutual attraction. After a few more minutes of kissing her and running your hands all over her slim body, you invite her home. She will probably say no. But she will give you her number and expect you to follow up so that she doesn’t have to say no in the future.


Step 6: Meet Up Again and Close the Deal

brazilian womenYou text her a day or two later and ask her out to a bar. She agrees. You meet her at the bar, and see her in another stunning outfit. You two sit down and sip a draught beer or a caipirinha (Brazil’s national sugar cane cocktail).

After an hour or two of good conversation and kissing and touching her, you ask her to go for a walk. She agrees, and you take a short walk and continue to sexually escalate while telling her a captivating story. Afterward, you invite her home again. She resists… weakly. You give her a manhandle kiss and she agrees.

You take her home or to your hotel, kiss her again within a few minutes of walking in, and overcome any last bit of token resistance as you prepare to have one of the best nights of your life.

And then you rinse… and repeat for as long as you stay.

And then you know Brazilian women. You love Brazilian women. You sleep with Brazilian women. Welcome.

And when in Brazil…

Carpe diem,

Colt

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340Breeze's picture

Difference btwn Women


In your opinion, why do western women respond so strongly to Push-pull, Negging, Subtle innuendo, Aloofness? If these techniques generate intrigue, present you as a challenge and differentiate you from the nice guys, and cause women in America to "feel" then why do the same techniques fail on international women (including Brazilieras)? You point to social awkwardness but in what sense?

What cultural differences or female expectations can you point to that lead to this conclusion?

And in your opinion after having been thru the rabbit hole of a Braziliera, do you feel the same way toward American women, especially if they don't quite treat you the same (passion, sexy, initiative in the romance, etc)?

Cheers,

340Breeze.

Colt Williams's picture

Differences

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340Breeze,

Chase and I were actually discussing this very topic recently. Essentially what we decided is the sense of social isolation that's encouraged in the US. Think about it, millions of children grow up in environments where they only may know one or two of their neighbors, and they really only interact with their parents -- who are greatly invested in their well-being -- until they start school.

And then they start school, and hit the playground, and go to parties, and suddenly their expected to interact with all of these new people that often have conflicting motivations and their own issues.

Whereas in Brazil, family (including extended family and close friends) is the top priority. Children are brought up in a very large community environment, and learn social intelligence from a very early age.

Back to the US. Even when we grow up, it doesn't necessarily get better. People talk about how college is the best time of life. Why? *Because you're surrounded by all of your friends*. There is a strong sense of community.

But when we enter the "real world" we move into apts, houses, and condos where we are once again isolated except for a handful of friends, our job, intramural sports and sometimes religious gatherings. So people don't get that close community feel that we all desperately crave.

Back to Brazil. *That never happens*. Everyone is part of a large and vibrant social community, which is why everyone is outgoing and places a lot of value on relationships.

So American girls come from a place of isolation and really loneliness. Brazileiras come from a place of community and fulfillment. That's the social awkwardness I speak of.

In terms of aloofness, etc. As I mentioned in the aticle, Brazilian girls are taught to be open about the sexuality and accept their roles as women. American girls are taught that they have to be "good girls" and that sex is only reserved for the perfect man in a monogamous relationship, in a bedroom, under the cover of darkness.

So American girls walk around *afraid of being judged*, particularly by other girls. They constantly think "I have to be seen a good girl. I have a be relationship/marriage material." But their bodies are telling them something very, very different. Women love sex just as much as men, so they want to have sex with the hot guy they see at Starbucks. But they feel like they shouldn't want to want that, at least if he hasn't "proven himself."

So when you do interact with women in America, you have to appeal to their deeper desires (sex), while still making sure that they won't get judged by society (innuendo/aloofness).

Read the Madonna whore article for more depth, if you haven't. https://www.girlschase.com/content/why-madonna-whore-intimately-linked-west

Whereas in Brazil, you can just cut to the biological chase!

Honestly, I think travel in general definitely has affected the way I look at American girls. You'll see more of what I mean in my future posts, but in general, girls in other countries are feminine in the right ways, and really know how to take care of you. And they don't make you feel guilty or like you're competing with them when you're a man.

Don't get me wrong, there are some amazing girls in America, but finding those diamonds in the rough is a *struggle* and sometimes just doesn't feel worth it for me with the amount of time I have to put in. And it really depends on what part of the country you live in. Whereas in other countries, your same efforts will yield you much higher rewards.

But to each his own, and American girls will still always hold a special place in my mind. Hope that answered all of your questions.

All the best,

Colt

340Breeze's picture

Thanks!


Thanks Colt!

Very interesting indeed the role that cultural early life (isolation vs communal) and feminist ideals (competition or lack thereof) have on relationship dynamics. Entitlement also plays a role.

I myself had to reboot my mentality when I moved here to America... I come from a place where people place a little more value on community than those in my city seemingly do... so I had expectations of friendliness and openness, but I was met with an ocean of aloofness. People here seem to place high value on ability and many tend to have a "prove what you can do for me first" mentality, prior to them caring a whole lot about your existence.

I agree that it depends heavily on where in the country you live because in my opinion I've experienced varying levels of warmth or aloofness depending on where in the country I've explored. To me Washington, DC is a little bit different than say Cali or Atlanta or New Orleans or parts of Florida. It's almost like some people in DC apply capitalism to their relationships. They view them as transactional in nature by asking what is in this for me...vs what can I give this person I like to make their life better as a result of having met me. People seem to place high value on ability and connections so that they can elevate their position/social status. Which would in part explain why some women seem to ignore all but the elite/powerful men. But what happens is (after speaking to some of the more elite women) is that they end up confused, distrustful of other people, frustrated and isolated in a sea of millions of people in their home city. They have "friends" who hardly even know anything about them, or make indirect snide comments to belittle them...so sad, but true.

I appreciate all the insights you all provide. You guys are special.

Cheers,

340Breeze.

Wesley's picture

Language


1. Fast Five reference...just...YES.

2. Did you learn portuguese before you went? You mentioned having "conversations". Were they in english or in Portuguese?

Visiting Brazil has always been a dream of mine ever since I discovered porn as a kid. They were practically the first women to get my adolescent body "excited". ;)

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Language

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Wes,

I have a very basic understanding of Portuguese, which is actually something I was worried about before I went. But, a lot of Brazilian girls speak a good amount of English. Not perfect by any means, you can communicate with them and have pretty clear conversations, and if have your fundamentals on lock, you will be just fine.

But, if you learn portuguese, you will be on another level, because you will be able to charm any girl. *However*, if you do learn portuguese, girls will also be less forgiving because they'll assume you've been there long enough to understand how to seduce them.

And if they got you excited on screen, imagine one on top of you ;). I'll leave you with image, and trust that you'll turn that dream into a reality someday soon.

Carpe diem,

Colt

Hugh G. Wrection's picture

Ola Colt, I liked your post


Ola Colt,

I liked your post on Brasil. I've traveled there many times and have spent months in Rio. I thought you made a pretty good comparison/contrast guide on the two cultures of America and Brasil and their women compared to most guides I've read.

I have to question though the statement that "a lot of Brazilian girls speak english" I've heard this before and it always puzzles me when people say this. I guess "a lot" should be quantified because in my experiences 90% of Brazilians speak little to zero english. Certainly not enough to carry on a conversation with. Even in the most english friendly cities like Rio and SP, most of the girls really only know portuguese. Some educated middle and upper class girls will speak english (especially in SP) but I've seen countless Western men strike out in Brasil because the language barrier is too great to overcome. I speak near fluent portuguese myself and chalk it up as one of the best endeavors I've made in my entire life. I cannot recommend learning the language enough. The difference between speaking only english and being able to game in porto is greater than the difference between daytime and night in Sao Paulo.

Tchau

Mr. Rob's picture

Brazil


Seriously cool post, definitely keep this series coming. I feel so inspired to cancel my ticket to the Dominican Republic and hit brazil up instead. Ahh if only I had enough money to do that. Anyway cool article looking forward to hearing about the rest of your travels.

Rob

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More to Come

Author

Thanks Rob!

I'm excited to share more of my adventures. And I'm sure you'll have a fantastic time in DR. There are amazing experiences to be had everywhere in the world. You just have to seize them!

-Colt

Alek Rolstad's picture

Scandinavian girls


I know many men around the glob loves brazilian women, but I believe many men also loves scandinavian women.

So guys if there is any interest in a guide for seducing scandinavian women, let me know and i will provive. You can answer to this comment and let me know what you opinion is.

Colt william,

Thank you for this one, there are a few points that caught my interest here. I will probably bring the knowledge from here with me if I ever travel to brazil (which I will probably do).

Question: in your opinion, do this knowledge also apply for other places in south america? to which extent does it if it does.

Thanks

Alek

Franco's picture

Go for it!


I second this motion. I would love to hear your insights on Scandinavian women, Alek. Feel free to share if you have the time. It would be greatly appreciated!

- Franco

Alek Rolstad's picture

It is not a question about time


It is not a question about time. I agreed with chase to share about 1 article per week. So the articles will pop up either way - the question is more about what i should write about and how I should dispose my time to. If I see some interest in a guide concerning scandinavian women, then I will write about it.

-Alek

Velour's picture

Scandinavian girls RE


Would definitely like to hear about Scandinavian girls!

Colt Williams's picture

South American Women

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Alek,

Cheers for comment! I don't have a crazy amount of experience with girls in other South American countries, but from my limited experience and talking to guys who have extensive experience, I would actually say that many of these rules actually *don't* apply to other South American women.

South American women are very sensual and energetic people, but for example, Ecuadorian women aren't terribly keen on westerners, or Colombian women tend to like much older men who can give them stability.

The one thing that is consistent is that you should always be dominant and direct (and being able to dance always helps your case in a big way), but you can't necessarily be as overtly sexual and physical as you are with Brazilian girls. Though, interestingly enough, if you do hit it off with a girl in another South American country, it's actually much easier to get a SNL than it would be in Brazil. Maybe because brazileiras are much more concerned with being considered 'easy' since they already have the sexual reputation and outward love for sex.

But I would also like to see your guide on Scandinavian women! I've bedded a couple of Swedish girl, but in general have gotten a lot of mixed reviews in terms of Scandinavian girls (with Sweden generally good and Norway generally bad), but I'd love to hear your thoughts. Looking forward to it.

All the best,

Colt

Anonymous's picture

Noway does suck


I have to concure about Norwegian women because I met one in a club abouthe one I met was pretty much an asshole to any guy that was trying totalk to her. So thinking that these men where being offensive l ask her if she was ok she said I don t think so and something about ugly americans. My sister whom was next to me almost punched her. So if the rest of Norwegian are like this I will never go there...

Mr. Rob's picture

Dooo it


Alek I think you should definitely write an article on Scandinavian women. Or other European women too if you have the insight. Its not somewhere on my bucket list but who knows it might just be when your done with the article. ;)

Rob

Pablo's picture

RE: scandinavian woman


Omfg Yes Alek please get a post on that! I really want to visit Sweden because of the stories I've heard about the girls.

Colt, thanks for this post, useful information in a small and to the point post with personal experience. Love it.

Keep up the good work!

Franco's picture

Fantastic


I would be lying if I didn't say this article got me excited.

South American women are my absolute favorite, and the only girl I've dated for a considerable period of time (and am currently dating) is mostly Portuguese and Italian, which is primarily where Brazilian roots come from. Their bodies drive me wild as they are often proportioned in ways that you only thought "Photoshop" could do in magazines...

...that is, until you actually go to Brazil, from what I've heard.

This is something that has definitely been on the radar for me, and I will probably be printing this article out and putting it in my back pocket as a reminder if (when) I travel there.

I appreciate the insights here, Colt! Hopefully there are plenty more Brazilian women in my future. ;)

Cheers,

Franco

Colt Williams's picture

Excitement

Author

Franco,

I can feel your excitement from here! They really are a sight to behold. But, as you know, there are a lot of physically beautiful women out there; it's the way that Brazilian girls also *carry themselves* and behave (oh so sensually) that really takes them to the next level.

I'm sure you've definitely gotten a taste of that with your Portuguese/Italian girl.

And yes, I'm sure there will be plenty in your future! And when you do make it out, I'd love to know how it goes!

Until then,

Colt

The Takedown's picture

The article is awesome and


The article is awesome and makes me want to goto Brazil now even more. Time to start brushing up on my Portuguese now I guess? ;)

Anonymous's picture

Scandinavian girls


Yepp I agree with Franco.Would love to read about Scandinavian girls.Especially swedish girls ; )

Richard Weddel's picture

Love It!


Colt,

Artigo fenomenal!

Haha, I love this one. I'll keep this article in mind when I venture to Brazil sometime later in my life. I plan to study traditional Brazilian Jiu Jitsu in the motherland one day ;)

Colt Williams's picture

Thanks

Author

Thanks Richard!

One of my good friends left his corporate office last year to study brazilian jiu jitsu and he absolutely loves everything about his whole experience. So look forward to it!

-Colt

Damian's picture

Hi, I'm a beginner from


Hi, I'm a beginner from argentina. Girls here seem to be a mix between brasil sexual kind and european shy type. You can find almost anything. I seem to find girls who are instantly attracted and friends that dissapear like point 4 and also lots of girls who act aloof and don't even look, accompanied by groups of friends that cockblock.

I always tought some advice was a bit too much for woman here (all the negging/ aloofness, etc) and only worked on a rather small part of the woman I met.

I think it's a social ladder thing a bit, most low resource woman seem to be sexual kind and high resource tend to be more aloof. Can anyone more experienced confirm or deny this?

(btw I find girls here more attractive than florianapolis brasil at least)

Colt Williams's picture

Class and Sexuality

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Damian,

First of all, in terms of pure definitions of beauty, I would have to agree, Argentine women are more beautiful than Brazilian women. Perhaps they are the most beautiful on the entire continent. But, in terms of sexuality and even bodies, Brazilians can't be beat.

But yes, you're assessment of Argentine women is correct. I think the higher resource ones take more cues from western society, whereas the lower resource ones tend to be more traditional.

You should see the comment that I wrote for 340breeze on the difference between Brazilians (and all south american women) and western girls. The way Argentine women are brought up means that it doesn't make sense to use negging/aloofness/western tactics in general to seduce them.

You should be much more direct and authoritative and even more sensual with all south american women. They will give you resistance (just like all women will), but moving things forward will always fix that. Good luck mane!

Best,

Colt

Damian's picture

Liked that social explanation


Liked that social explanation you gave to 340breeze, made me unrestand more why some of this site seemed so strange to me, yet other was spot on.
I will keep being direct and sensual, Thanks ;)

Anonymous's picture

I have a trip scheduled to


I have a trip scheduled to Brazil, and I wondered... if Brazilian girls are so sexually open, why won't they have sex with you on the first date?

Anonymous's picture

Brazilian women


What if they are coming to you via couch surfing? Anyone have experience with a Brazilian girl from couchsurfing?

Anonymous's picture

"Everyone grows up being very


"Everyone grows up being very sexual open". Perhaps everyone of your circles: night clubs and tourist destinations. Sorry, your allure was so very stereotypical at some parts. You do not know about the real Brazil, the one without make-up and the label "come to see us!". How people really are, there are millions of people there in very different regions. It is not that I am judging your lifestyle, you could be writing something really bad and low level about your "Brazilian adventures". I just had to write that what you testify is not globally true. The worst thing here is that, based upon the comments, you are calling also the worst type of visitor to Brazil. Brazil has too much to deal right now and does not need this. Some "senior travellers" even say "but I do not recommend learning the language"... There is no advantage in the openess you cite as the front characteristic, leaving alone the fact that it is not true. "If Brazilian girls are so sexually open, why won't they have sex with you on the first date?". Be careful, if you make this question there you can have a really bad experience. Any real Brazilian, woman or man, could answer this: "it is just that what you heard is not accurate, dear not welcome tourist, it is not the way you thought. And those Gringos are really dumb, aren't they". It is not the truth because it is not true indeed.

Hugh G. Wrection's picture

Keep in mind the the nature


Keep in mind the the nature of the website that this article is posted on.

I read this mostly as a general comparison between Brazilian women and North American women and not necessarily a complete description of what Brazilian women are like. The positive side was stressed here (which you object to) and not really the negative side. And Brazilian women surely have a negative side. Some stereotypes ring true. It's sheer fact that Brazilian society is far less puritanical than American society is. This is easily seen in almost every facet of Brazilian culture. And why the hell is this a bad thing anyway? For those who've spent some time in Brasil it's hard to argue with 80% of this article. The other 20% is just a matter of opinion and interpretation.

BTW, it's a myth that Brazilian women are not interested in SNLs or sex without strings - "ficantes". Some are not interested in a romantic relationship at all and only want sex from a guy. A lot already are in a relationship and fuck around behind their partner's back. In Sao Paulo there are more of these types than any one man is capable of dealing with.

Raquel 's picture

Cultura Brasileira


Colt,
Gostei do seu artigo, principalmente da parte em que fala que somos "ciumentas" hahahaha isso é mais que verdade. Só deixando uma coisa clara, que as mulheres do Rio de Janeiro são um pouco diferente de outras culturas no Brasil.
Abraço!

Renata's picture

Dear Colt, I am Brazilian and


Dear Colt,

I am Brazilian and I was surprised reading your statements. Well this is 2014 and all the manual on how to get laid sounds a bit antediluvian.

But anyway, that is not my point. My point is, wherever you are a tourist (and you are not connected to any social circle and you are not staying long), women and men that are bent on cheating will have in you, the tourist, the perfect lover, whether you are going to Brazil, Spain, Sri Lanka. You just name it. So it happens in exactly the same way whenever a tourist visits USA... the same kind of men/women (although brought up in a puritanical society) will cheat his/her partner just as bad. It happens all the time. If you peruse sexual psychology reports you will realize that American women are not as "castrated" as you may think. And more than that, they are much more sexually open than Latin Americans in general. Not that I am proud of that. I think that everybody should be allowed to be satisfied in their needs as long as it is consensual. Latin Americans, unfortunately, are much less open to sex than Americans statistically.

By being a person that travels a lot to different continents and speak more than four languages fluently I realize that when you are a tourist you do not perceive social and cultural cues very well. That happens every time I visit Japan. The girls that you are talking about are probably not seen in Brazil in the best of lights, even if they are not poor or from favela or any such thing. And I want to stress also that they are not whores or something like that. But it is like dating the cheerleader prototype... What you described above is the Brazilian correspondent of the dumb Blond stereotype: jealous, obedient, pretty much acephalous, not able to speak another language properly. And that is why you received the angry letter above. You generalized far too much. There are many types of periguetes, just as many as there are of bimbos. Only the cues they give, you find them attractive and the lack of understanding of Portuguese cannot allow you to understand and evaluate the person you are getting laid with (and I fully understand that it is not the point either. The point is getting laid with a Brazilian. Period. Whoever that person might be though... which is kind of odd... more like a fetish...). On the other hand, you are far more cognizant of this kind of woman and do not find them not so enticing in US... This is a typical lost in translation example. In US you find them Madonna like. In Brazil you find them charming... go figure...
All the best,
Renata.
P.S. And yes, you are right in many points: it is not so difficult to get together with Brazilian bimbos as they love Disneyland (and I am not being sarcastic here), and going to Miami to buy clothes and purses, and they do not understand much about anything and are pretty happy this way. It is all about getting tanned, and going out to dance and having fun... But isn't it pretty much the same with dumb blondes anyway?
P.S. 2 And I agree that social skills are a very important thing.

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