Had a cool discussion tonight with a buddy of mine about some cats who are fearless at closing, and close well and often. Same-Night Lays (SNLs) from clubs, bars, no problemo, on a consistent basis.
Sure, SNLs happen, but how many guys have them happen consistently? I know just a handful of dudes who have consistency in that regard.
What I've noticed in these guys, and myself when I'm successful usually, is that closing consists of two parts:
Intention is, you've got to want it. You've got to want it through and through, down to your balls. You've got to want to spear her with your cock. If a guy is just chatting with her and thinking, "Hmm, maybe I'll talk to her some more, then move her over here, then try to get her back to my place," that's not intention. That's him mentally meandering about.
Guys who get laid are thinking, "Mmm, she's fine. I really want to fuck her right now. Let's make that happen."
Fearlessness is, you've got to be prepared to say, "Fuck it," and go for it. You've got to be ready to throw out that awesome connection you've formed with her, or risk scaring off this super hot girl, or toss out three months of work by making a move. You've got to not care if you lose her.
That's why a lot of guys who fuck a lot tend to fuck a lot of average looking chicks. They don't care about losing those girls, so go in fearlessly and close the deal. Then they dance around with the girls they like and don't get the job done... and those girls move on, in search of a REAL man.
If you want to up your results, those are two primary areas of focus: INTENTION, and FEARLESSNESS. Get those down and you'll be in amazingly good position to get a lot of beautiful girls into all kinds of interesting positions.