Just met her in the bar, and want a fun way to take things sexual
fast? Break out the orgasm control routine – and watch her get hot in a
hurry.
I’ve decided to write a follow-up to my tantric sex gambit. The idea behind that post was to not only give you a powerful gambit to play around with, but also give myself an opportunity to share the principles behind it, so you can learn from them. In other words, those principles serve as examples of how certain concepts can be used.
In the previous post, we discussed how the tantric sex gambit would:
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Display sexual prizing – by showing your knowledge related to sex and framing you as a good lover
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Introduce the topic of sex in a low-key, not overly-explicit way – tantric sex is hot, but it’s not very explicit. We also discussed how using a proxy could allow us to introduce the topic with more ease (e.g., “I read somewhere that…”)
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Force some touching (and eye contact) – when doing that quick demo, you hold hands and face each other, looking each other in the eyes
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Provide an easy way to get her entranced – by breathing together
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Incorporate other minor stuff, too – rich descriptions, commands, and so on
This time around, we will focus on more explicit material and communicating even more sexual prizing – how to talk about sex and really communicate that you know your shit. So this time, our focus will be:
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Sexual prizing (again)
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Making her horny by being more explicit
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Contrasting – to set us apart from other men and other people, framing ourselves as sexually superior
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How to use fractionation to create anticipation and amplify everything
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Using more amplifying language (e.g., “more and more”)
These things can all seem very difficult to grasp by simply reading about the gambit. There is so much to remember, and if you are not used to using advanced verbals, this can seem overly confusing. However, my experience tells me that once you see it exemplified in light of the explanations, it should make more sense. So we will exemplify things before discussing the concepts used.
Remember, practice makes champions, but the first try may be a bit off (I highly doubt you will experience any major side-effects from doing this wrong). With practice, you should improve your flow and experience these awesome techniques at full power.
But again, I will not lie, this post is made for intermediate to advanced players. Feel free to read it if you are a beginner, but do not expect to get too far with this stuff right away unless you have your fundamentals in check (at least) and preferably have some experience with women. Either way, let us get on with this technique.
Comments
Sexual Tension
Hey Alek,
I'm trying to implement sexual tension as described in your posts. A note about facial expression. Please bear with me here.
Question: When you say to have no facial expression, are you saying that for all guys or for guys with pretty good fundamentals? Because my neutral facial expression is similar to this https://www.missmalini.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/1-5.jpg except my lips are fatter and not symmetric. (Don't laugh, this is serious)
I used to purse my lips a lot but I just looked weird. So should I go for this face or do you have any recommendations?
2. Which type of seducer are you? Strong silent type or talkative? My guess form your posts is that you're somewhere in between.
3. I get called try hard for my body language, especially my walk. I saw in your posts you recommend relaxed but not revealing body language. I'm realizing how much you were right. How can I have a more powerful and less try hard body language?
Lopsided
It is very hard to advice people on facial expression over the web for many obvious reasons.
Many different facial expression works for different people, but I have noticed that the neutral look with a relaxed face works best - i.e. do nothing at all, just chill and look at her deep in the eyes as this creates some mystic. Looking at the pic you sent me, it did not look that bad.
But have you tried it? how did it work out? If it works great, if not, try something else. It is very hard to advice anyone if they do not share their experiences with trying out the material - i.e. it would have been easier if you could tell me more about the reaction you get from women (although stil lthen it is hard to give in-depth advices on fascial expression.
Which type of seducer I am? I like to use verbal and talk my way into bed. as you can tell from this thread and the previous one, I like to talk about sexual subjects. I am however able to seduce non-verbally as well, as certain clubs do not allow for talking.
A good body language comes from experience but also working out. do you work out? Additionally, stretching - YES stretch your muscles. This gives a more relaxed look. Additionally, massages help - you should consider getting a massage pillow.
-Alek
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