To Make Her Desire You, Give Her Permission To

make her desire
It’s as important to make a woman feel allowed to desire you as it is to cause that desire. Unless she feels allowed, she’ll quash her desire for you.

Hi everyone. Today I will get more theoretical. My theoretical posts are to serve a purpose and provide a framework to not only help you better understand your successful interactions with women, but also create a foundation for a better understanding of seduction as a whole.

These frameworks and models are just mere representations of the real world, and should only be used for explanatory purposes - i.e., to help you make sense of things, not necessarily to give true explanations of how things are. I will spend two posts on explaining two different frameworks, which will synergistically add to your overall understanding.

In this post I will discuss two aspects of seduction that are key to creating her willingness to have sex with you - namely building her desire for you and letting her feel allowed. My next post will be about the two levels of leading: leading her emotionally and leading her logistically. Both concepts require both levels (all being forms of generating desire or leading) and are equally important in every seduction. Ideally, both should be applied during real life encounters.

The concepts that I am about to share in this post have been covered in my detailed lay report from Bulgaria. If you have been looking for a real life example in which those concepts are applied, I really recommend you read that report. It also has a lot of other great material.

Anyway, enough chitchat, let us get right into it.

Alek Rolstad

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Alek Rolstad launched his pickup career at age 14, an early starter and seduction savant. His unique style of game focuses on “sex talk”: a way to make sex the primary topic of conversation. Sex talk lets the user excite girls rapidly, and filter for girls open to fast, raunchy, kinky one-night stands and sex. You can learn from Alek, the master and originator of sex talk himself, by listening to his interview or even signing up to coach with him directly.

Comments

Hey,

Posted by someguy (not verified) on Saturday, 22 October 2016

Hey,

this is quit usefull not only on a theoretical level. Just a few days ago I was in a situation, where it mattered.

I feel awareness about her current level of attractedness, and if there may be other roadblocks is super important at an intermediate level. It`s great to have an understanding that there are pretty much only the two main areas (is she attracted, is she allowed). When you can tell one area should be fine, you can focus your perception on the other one and go from there.

There will be no real need for a "seduction pattern" where you move through steps in a certain order (I got a little stuck once lately).
Should I isolate? Should I touch her? Should get to know her better? It`s easy to make a choice, when you use your intuition about the situation and get a feeling what`s missing most and what`s already there.

For example when she is horny as hell do not touch/kiss her. Make sure you get her feel allowed first, by isolating or whatever is needed. Otherwise you risk creating frustration and autorejction.