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Much of men’s dating advice tells you to be confident, but after a certain point a man with little to fear might just ask the question, “Can being shy be turned to one’s advantage?”
As it turns out, shy combined with moments of confidence can create an incredibly alluring contrast, and yes, be incredibly attractive. In fact, the right use of “shyness” can show off a deeper internal confidence than just being extroverted and outgoing all the time can.
Being shy-natured can be a powerful way to separate yourself from the noise of the crowd and heighten the experience of sharing a moment with you.
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thanks i know now
i just wanted to say it makes sense on what i am now in society i'm the shy guy. i always observe people and my surroundings i'm conservative when comes to just going up to any girl in the club. Becuase im looking for right girl. i never understood the games people play when it comes to attraction and possible relationships or hook ups. so thanks for info
The highly sensitive seducer...
Thanks for writing this article and sharing your experience Cody.
As a highly sensitive guy i will be returning to it from time to time.
Would love if there were more articles like this one where sensitive people can use their natural traits to their advantage.
Best wishes from Denmark
And become a sexy shadow of
And become a sexy shadow of the night.
Nailed it
Shyness
Dear Cody, I'm Alessandro, 34-year-old doctor from Italy.
Glad that you wrote an article which says something different than the usual: "The alpha male is strong, never shy, etc."
Many women like me, but I can say that a good percentage of them told me I was shy.
Yesterday I met a girl who had also met my brother. "You are shier than your brother: he is more naughty", she said.
I admit that, sometimes, when I hear that, I tend to get frustrated (because of some superficial PUA stuff). But, after all, even though I am not completely easy going and open (a little more fear of rejection than my brother), I am usually interesting: I can tease a girl, be charming, increase value with my skills and even be histrionic at times. Also, I am quite fast when it comes to escalating (it's just that I can show a shy smile, sometimes, and that I am a little more "formal" than guys who immediately touch, grab, aggressively tease and engage a girl in a conversation every two seconds).
And, in fact, the girl I met yesterday gave me many signals of interest (even though there were some friends of mine devoid of shyness).
I'd like a comment, from you or Chase, about this alpha shyness.
What do you think, guys? If a man can tease her, make her invest, intrigue her, show her a big value, seduce her with eye contact... can he be still successful even with a veil of shyness? I have a veil of shyness. I can't identify it: in my opinion, I act normally, I make jokes, etc... but many women can sense this veil. I don't think it's a big problem, as my love life shows. Where can this thing be problematic? Maybe in one night stands, when you need to appear bold and aggressive?
Thank you!
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