A topic that I know a lot of guys struggle with is touch. It's something I don't think to discuss terribly often -- touch, while I had to learn it like everything else, came pretty fast to me and was relatively second nature for me early on, so I never got to thinking about it so much as other things -- but touching women is incredibly important to your success with them.
As I've broken it down for myself, there are several different ways of going about touching women you can employ -- different categorizations of the manner of physical contact you can have with girls. Touch from each of the categories is conducted a little differently from touch in all the other categories, and each has its own effects.
The excerpt I have for you today is from my eBook, How to Make Girls Chase: Every Tactic and Technique You Need to Get the Girl(s) of Your Dreams. I've teased out the 4 ways to touch women here for your perusal, to get you thinking about touch in a newer, sharper, and more effective way...
“There are all manner of ways of touching women. We’ll categorize these here, and describe each kind and give examples of ways you might touch in each category. These should get you primed for getting increasingly physical in the right ways.
- Incidental Touch: The kind of touching you do lightly and throughout a conversation as mostly a social function; for instance, touching a girl’s elbow on a high point, or sitting next to her with your legs touching hers.
- Protective Touch: Touch you use in protecting or guiding a woman, such as placing your hand on her lower back while guiding her through a crowd, or placing you arm in front of her chest or stomach to stop her stepping into the street when you notice cars coming.
- Romantic Touch: More intimate touch that you do as the interaction progresses to physically signal your interest. This can include things like briefly stroking her chin or cheek, or playing with her hair, or holding her hands.
- Sexual Touch: Touch that stimulates a woman sexually. Generally, you want to wait until the two of you are in private to begin doing sexual touch, so that you can move immediately into getting intimate without worrying about people watching or having to worry about what her friends might do. Sexual touch includes stroking her inner thighs and kissing her neck.
The fun thing about touch, like everything in this book, is that you can learn to speed through the stages in certain scenarios, and have women being romantic and sexual with you almost immediately. This is dependent upon what mode they’re in, but also reliant upon your comfort level with executing these different kinds of touch and progressing quickly.
Something you can do in crowded bars and nightclubs if you’re feeling particularly bold is make eyes with a cute girl walking nearby and, if she’s game, take her hands as she passes and pull her in very close. I have had women come up and kiss me on the lips and face whom I haven’t spoken to yet doing this. It gets them very interested in you right off the bat, as they’re not used to men doing things like this. You can’t do this with every girl, but the ones who are giving you strong eye contact and a bit of a mischievous smile – they’re the ones who are usually going to be up for this maneuver. That’s one way, actually, to use strongly suggestive touch as an opener with a new girl.
For now though let’s look at specifics for each kind of touch, before we get into talking about when and how to use them...”
Getting yourself touching women properly is absolutely going to be a core part of your success and interactions with them. Touch is one of the most important means of conversation between human beings, it's completely crucial to succeeding at nonverbal attraction, and besides all that... it just feels good to be touching that cute girl you've just met.
I wrote my eBook specifically to take everything I've put together over a half decade of meeting women, getting to know them inside and out, and taking them as lovers, consorts, and girlfriends, and get that information into your hands so that you could achieve the same kinds of success that I have. It's laid out in a step-by-step format to guide you along the path toward shaping yourself into the kind of man who has not just great results with women, but consistent great results with women -- because consistent great results with the girls you most want is, in my mind, the ultimate form of freedom for a man.
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Until next time.