Sometimes the sexual tension just pops. Maybe her friend stepped
in or a random guy said something. How do you get it back once it’s
gone?
Contents
1. Sexual Tension: Release vs. Break
2. Sexual Tension: Social Context
Hello again, guys. I hope you are doing well! Welcome to part five of my series on sexual tension.
In case you are just tuning in, here are the first four installments:
In our fourth article, we discussed how to maintain sexual tension between you and your girl. This article will focus on how you can maintain the sexual tension in light of social context – that is, how to deal with “wildcards” when you are experiencing sexual tension.
Today I will divulge what I know about how to deal with social factors that can interfere with sexual tension, including her friends and the social world.
Without further ado, let us get right into it!
Comments
Hello Alek
Hello Alek
great article again. New stuff, easy to comprehend and convincing.
Will there maybe a piece about how to manage tension in long term relationships? Being mysterious, is rather hard to pull off, when you know eachother for a long time. It`s also not ideal, when you want to feel like the image she loves about you is quite close to how you see yourself.
Are there certain frames, that work better in the long run regarding tension? For example being brutally honest as the guy seems to have some advantages. Your moodswings keep things fresh and a little unpredictable. Screening, leading and compliance testing are kind of included in the package.
Hope you have a good time
Someguy
Hey there Someguy!
Thank you again for your kudos. I am happy to hear that the material is fresh and exciting. There is a bit more to come - 2 more articles followed with a long report where I put it all together (I had already been sent in)
Regarding your question: Yes creating anticipation is key in relationship. I would gladly write a post about it. However I wouldn't call this sexual tension per.se. but more "tension and anticipation". I do not want to get too semantical but what I am discussing in my current series concerns that feeling of a special bubble of strong sexual energy. Yes this can be create in a relationship, but is not an overall "frame" on a macro level, but rather something you create when ever you feel like it.
I do not have a good time - exams tomorrow. But brighter days are coming. I hope you are doing fine though :)
-Alek
Sex Talk
Mr Alek
You're the One who taught me about Sex Talk, and how it can be used to create Sexual Tension... so thank you !
RockstarBalance
Thank you man. This is great to hear. I am happy to know you've gotten something out of my stuff!
And yeah do not worry - I will get back to verbals sooner or later :)
-Alek
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