Manhandle Kisses

Maybe it’s because I’m in Asia, but I seem to be meeting a lot of more conservative girls recently, and many of them have been throwing up a lot of initial resistance to kissing me. I used to run into this occasionally in the States, but nothing like what I’m seeing over here.

So what’s a guy to do? Well, what I’ve been doing is the same thing I’d do the odd time I’d run into women State-side who gave me resistance to kissing – I say resistance be damned and kiss her anyway.

You used to see a lot of this in old Hollywood movies – back when men were men and women were women in America – but these days, Western culture’s become so sanitized that you won’t see masculine men just go for it anymore in the movies. A real shame, really.

What’s this look like? It often looks like women turning their heads away from me, or putting their chins and eyes down, while they place their hands against my chest pushing me away, while I draw them into me, gently but firmly, and put my hand under their chins (if their faces are down) or on the side of their faces (if their faces are turned away) and bring their faces to mine and plant a kiss on their lips. If they are offering a great deal of resistance, I may just give them a quick peck that lingers only a second for the first kiss. Sometimes they will melt and go into a full-on make-out with that first kiss; the rest of the time, I will end the kiss and go back to whatever we were doing before (talking, watching TV, etc.) as if nothing ever happened. And then, a couple of minutes later, once the dust has settled and we’ve calmed ourselves a bit, I will grab a girl again again and draw her in for a kiss again. Typically she will struggle again, but the next time she will kiss me much more passionately. By the third to the fifth kiss, she will always be melting in my arms, and intimacy tends to quickly follow thereafter.

This isn’t certain to win me points in the books of any feminists, or probably even some Western men who are more used to Western women leading the way and calling the shots, but it sure wins me points in the eyes and hearts of the women I use this on. My ex-girlfriend of three years I first kissed this way; I’ve been using this weekly in Asia, and I used it again last night when a girl I really liked whom I knew liked me quite a bit struggled a lot against kissing me.

I should note that this is very advanced stuff; if you still have a hard time figuring out exactly how much a girl likes you, or whether she is responding well or not to your advances, save this for later when you’ve got that stuff down.

But if you’re at a point that you very reliably know when a woman wants you and wants you to do more with her, this is for you

Typically, the way this works, too, is that once you’ve gotten past the resistance to kissing that women who resist kissing put up, you’re on easy street for the rest of the seduction. Something I learned a long time ago was that women each have one major wall to proceeding during a seduction – for some women, that’s removing their bra; for others, it’s removing their panties; for still more, it’s kissing. Once you’ve made it over that main barrier, though, the rest is smooth sailing.

The reason why this is is because it’s tied to what a woman considers to be the main sign that she and a man are going to get together. For conservative girls, kissing is a big deal – it’s a clear sign they are about to get intimate with a man. For less conservative girls, kissing is just something they do for fun in nightclubs and with men they’re only flirting with, so they have little resistance to the act. For them, having their bras taken off or their panties removed are where their clear signs of seduction are positioned.

This is one of the reasons I enjoy conservative girls more than more “liberated” women – with conservative girls, you can force your way through the kiss wall, and you’re on easy street after that. With “liberated” women, whose walls are placed further along in the seduction, it’s not quite as easy to just tear a girl’s bra or panties off. I’ve done that a few times (with unclipping the bras of resistant girls, or grabbing girls pants and just pulling), and it does seem to be effective at getting them pretty excited, though.

Aside: one key to not scaring girls off or coming across as a bad guy / a pushy guy is that you try for a little bit, then cool it. You grab a girl and manhandle her into kissing you… then just cool it for a minute. You grab a girl’s pants and yank them down, then cool it if she yanks them back up again, or spend a minute kissing her and fingering her when her pants are off before proceeding with sex. Give her a minute to accept the situation and agree with it before proceeding. I feel that’s of vital importance both for letting girls continue to feel reasonably in-control, and for avoiding any situations where you inadvertently take things too far with a woman who wasn’t willing. The other thing it does for you, in taking these little breaks during a seduction, is that it gives a woman the chance to leave. If a woman is truly uncomfortable, she will go. If she stays, she is at least communicating that she’s open to your advances. End aside.

By using these “manhandle kisses”, where you pull a woman into kissing you even as she resists, you display a level of confidence and dominance that most women never encounter – and you get a subsequent giant leap in attraction and arousal from many of the women you use it on, even the shy / nervous ones.

One note: you will likely need to do a lot more qualifying on women after this, and put in some extra effort to make them feel special and good. Manhandle kisses, and other ways of manhandling women in the bedroom and doing things in spite of resistance, often set women up to really enjoy the seduction and intimacy when it occurs, but then afterward to look back and regret it later, because they feel like you were so good that you must do this with every woman. So you need to really stress that you like a girl a lot to preserve the good feelings she has toward you.

Remember, this is advanced – this is for the guys who know women inside and out. If you’re not there yet, spend a little time figuring out women’s reactions and only try this with women you are absolutely positive are extremely attracted to you and who are waiting for something to happen with you.

That said, this is a great way to move things forward with resistant women, and a hell of a lot of fun. Some of my most memorable seductions have been the ones where I’ve just grabbed a girl and pulled her in for a kiss, as she resisted coyly. It’s a very masculine thing to do, when you encounter a woman who acts very shy and feminine. Here’s to manhandle kisses.

Yours,
Chase