Sexual Economics: The Lover and the Provider
From
reading the comment sections of my earlier posts, I saw that
many men still do not truly believe that women love sex and seek it
sometimes only for the pleasure of raw, primal sex itself.
I can understand why this is hard to grasp, as we often hear women talking so much about how they seek romance and love (and not only sex). We get the idea that women just want a boyfriend who can stimulate their heart... and not so much their loins.
Many men also believe that women are “okay” with having sex, but that women only have sexual intercourse with men in order to reward them for good behaviours.
Well, in my opinion, such beliefs are true... but only partly true. I will explain how women experience mating – what they seek in men and how their sexual behaviour can change drastically according to which men they are interacting with. I will also cover the elementary traits of these different men so that you can become the man you desire to become.
It is recommended but not required that you check out my earlier posts on:
By reading these posts you start off with an even better
understanding of the
concepts laid down in this article. However, for those who haven’t
checked them out, I will recap the most crucial elements, as we dive in
to how women think about sex and why it’s so that women use sex as a
reward for some men... but seek it as their own reward from others.
Ah, empathy. At its most basic level, “empathy” simply
means
“understanding where another person is coming from.” I worked in the
counseling field for a couple years, so I have been pretty well-trained
in how to have empathy for others, and even how to make
them 
On a particularly long day, after an 8 hour drive home
from Northern
Wisconsin on vacation, I was feeling tired, and the day’s events had
hit
me.
As a
follow-up to yesterday's article, "
We
get comments and questions on here every so often where I see
guys saying they think girls are still in love with them, then
detailing behavior that makes it clear the girl is most assuredly not
anywhere 
When you
enter
a club or a mall or a party and you see strangers
that you don’t know, dressed well and talking to people, it is easy to
assume that they know something or have something you do not. These
people operating on that “high profile” aren’t very likely to come up
and talk to you, so it can be a huge shock if and when they do.
A frequently asked question by our readers concerns
resistance. In
the comment sections of my articles, many readers have pointed out that
when they make a sexual move (in the form of 
Ah,
threesomes! For many men, having sex with two women at once is
the pinnacle of manliness. Ask any man about his sexual fantasies, and
if he's man enough to admit he has some, you will almost certainly hear
"two chicks at once."