Always Plan for a Woman to Change
A woman can be fickle and changeable. But why is this so? Science
shows us this fickleness is an inherent aspect of female decision
making.
Insights from the Mind of a Seducer
Hit and Run Social Proof for Girls You Meet at Bars
If you’re already in a chat with girls, it’s easy to both excite
those girls and set up backup plan girls… by stepping away for a second
to meet someone else.
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I’ve got some more great pickup tech for you guys. Hopefully by the end of this year, you will have a huge arsenal. This post is primarily related to social proof, which we have covered a lot here in September and October. And you may be asking, “Alek, why didn’t you just share this technique while covering those other aspects of social proof?”
I have only one answer to that: Well, I just discovered this technique.
Yes, I am going out every weekend – and sometimes weekdays. I am out there meeting girls, banging girls, and discovering new strategies, techniques, and tactics all the time. This means I am sometimes sharing my techniques as I discover them. And in case you’re wondering, I give them 3-5 field tests before sharing in order to secure their validity and also get to observe their nuances. I believe techniques are best served fresh. I hope you are enjoying it.
Either way, let’s get on with it. Note that this technique is made primarily for night game (bars, clubs, house parties, etc.).
A Young Man's Progression Through the Game
Follow the journey of a young man from shy and dateless, to
improving with women, to living the dream… and what happens after.
Dan trudges off to his Thursday morning class, another long day in an endless sea of them ahead. The sole bright spot for him is the girl with brown hair and glasses. She will be there. She’s always in his Thursday morning class.
When he gets there, he grabs a seat, then looks around, waiting for her to show up. She hasn’t shown up yet. The class slowly fills. Some kid takes the empty seat to his left. Damn, he thinks. I hoped it’d stay empty until she gets here. Close to class start time, he sees the girl with brown hair and glasses walk in. He stares at her; her eyes search the room, looking for seats, then briefly meet his. He thinks he sees her smile, but she quickly looks down. She hurries off to a far corner of the room to take one of the few remaining empty seats.
All class, Dan thinks about her. He waits at the end of class,
packing his books up slowly. He glances over toward her – it seems like
she’s
packing up slowly too. At last, after most of the class has filtered
out, Dan makes for the exit, and so does the girl with brown hair and
glasses. He lets her get right in front of him. She doesn’t look at
him, but she glances down and wipes her hair back over one ear. He
can’t tell, but he thinks she might be smiling. He feels like he should
say something – this is his chance!
– but he doesn’t know what to say. The both file out of the classroom;
she heads off in one direction. Dan’s headed the other. He slowly walks
away from her.
He doesn’t feel bad though. He feels even more certain she might like him now. And next class – he knows – will be the one he makes it happen in.
The semester passes this way. Many days the girl with brown hair and glasses doesn’t notice him or give him any signs, and he thinks she’s lost interest. Sometimes she gives him some little look, or plays with her hair while almost glancing in his direction, and he thinks she must like him still.
Once she sits two seats over from him, and he almost says something to her. He spends the entire class full of nerves, pushing himself to say something. In the end, he tells himself it’d be too awkward trying to talk over two seats – he’ll wait for a better opportunity. Next class, he’ll get a better opportunity.
As summer turns to autumn, then autumn to winter, the semester draws to a close. The fallen leaves on the ground are covered by a light dusting of snow. Finals are over, and it’s time for the students to head home for the holidays.
“Maybe the girl with brown hair and glasses will be in one of my classes next semester,” Dan tells himself.
Tactics Tuesdays: Dealing with Core Tests on Dates and in Pickups
Not all tests are subtle. Sometimes women break out the big guns.
But what do you do when she hits you with a test aimed right at your
core?
In today’s Tactics Tuesdays post, we talk about a very specific kind of test. These are what I call ‘core tests’; they test a man at his core, aimed at what a woman dubs likely to be a core issue to a man’s strength or identity. A core test revolves around money, leadership, sexual prowess, and other areas most men pride themselves on strength in.
Contents
This is Part I of a 2-parter on core tests. Part I deals with core tests in pickups and on dates.
Women will use core tests on you at any stage of interaction with them. They will use them with you during the courtship. They’ll use them on dates. They’ll core test you in the bedroom as you escalate to sex. They’ll core test you early on into a sexual relationship, half a year into your relationship, or ten years into marriage. Core tests are the most dangerous tests women will use on you – yet they also present the greatest opportunity to set massively powerful frames.
We’ll talk about how to spot a core test, why core tests carry so much force to shake most men so easily, and how to shrug core tests off in a way that will not only make women’s respect for you shoot through the ceiling, but will help you yourself cement your own identity as an unshakeable man.
Core tests serve as a reliable way to show women around you a kind
of dynamic
confidence most men don’t know how to summon up. And in this way, they
can be quite useful to encounter.
How to Demand Respect, Pt 3: What Is Disrespectful Behavior?
Disrespect can be direct – but often it’s cloaked. This article
walks you through the many types of disrespect… and shows you how to
recognize them.
Contents
3. How to Spot Small Digs of Disrespect
4. How to Spot Indirect Digs of Disrespect
In the first article of this series, we learned that the love of self is your greatest ally with women and socializing.
Then, in Part II, we tackled the three biggest myths others use to convince you that pride is bad.
If you haven’t read the other two articles yet, they’re not
absolutely required reading for this part; it functions fine as a
standalone article too. But I recommend you give them a read if you
want the full picture we’ve been painting on respect.
In today’s article, Part III, we’ll get into how to recognize disrespectful behavior. We’ll also cover a few ways to tackle such behavior, though next time, in Part IV, we’ll really get into the details on how to deal with it.
On with Part III: what is and is not disrespect?
