When you start having more conversations with women you start to
learn what girls look for and how they
identify those things.
By talking with girls frequently and having their trust sexually you
start to hear about how they think while at the gym, or while at the
beach, or traveling, and after this it becomes more and more clear that
our fears of approaching in these places are misguided.
I was having some discussions recently about a few of these weird
places, and you should know that girls
are happier to meet guys than you would think at them.
Women are actively looking and
positioning themselves in the best spots they can, so if you see
a girl somewhere quirky and your first instinct is fear and to hide
away, just stop for a moment. Girls
usually go to these places because they really don’t want to go
anywhere else to meet guys. So take the fact that she showed up
where you are as a good sign, because on some level girls understand
that if two cute people cross paths they just might spark up a
And so long as you follow a few dos and don’ts correctly, you should
do well in these situations. Also, keep in mind that the fact that she
showed up is a sign that she thinks “guys here might be okay!”
We as guys get nervous, but girls like that because it weeds out 90%
of the guys who never think far enough ahead or never find the
motivation to follow through.
The simple act of meeting a girl in quirky places can cause her to
think great things about you. It might sound crazy, but as much as
these places can be scary, the scariness is matched by their level of
So buckle up, because meeting girls in unusual
settings often means you are in for a different ride and it may just
accelerate your learning curve, as girls assume the best rather than
shooting you down.