Articles by Author: Skilled Seducer
How I'm *Now* Getting Consistent 1st Date Lays
This post, written by forum member DoWhatWorks, first appeared on our forum here.
Been in more of a taking vs giving trend (for my own standards) recently so thought I'd just give value in this post by going into my 1st date lay process.
As many of you know I'm a numbers guy so I'll say this to build credibility not brag - this month (April) I've slept with 5/6 girls first time from dates.
(x4 from online dating, x1 night game where I number closed then followed up)
In my past posts I was a big proponent of the Date 2 method & I think it's a useful a tool in your toolkit but after a certain level it makes more sense to go for 1st date lays.
It's more efficient, girls hook better & it just sets all the right frames from the start.
Before I dive in, Chase's post >here< is a must-read and covers the fundamentals. I'm going to add details that have levelled up my consistency.
Some are very obvious, but when you simply do the basics well and avoid mistakes you're halfway there.
Skilled Seducer of the Month, April 2024: Bloom
Exciting news: we’re beginning a new monthly award entitled the Skilled Seducer of the Month. Each month, we’ll be introducing you to a talented Casanova – ranging from well-known veteran playboys to promising up-and-comers – whose achievements or contributions have earned him the mantle of that month’s Skilled Seducer.
For our inaugural month of April, our Skilled Seducer of the Month is Bloom. Bloom is an American seducer – a former inhabitant of New York City – who’s posted a series of impressive recent same-day lay reports with girls he’s picked up in his travels through South America. His lovers have ranged from an auburn-haired English tourist to a Chilean-Venezuelan visitor to a few Brazilian locals.
What they have in common? Bloom met all of them via day game; he seduced each one the same day he met her; and each and every one of them, according to Bloom, possessed a nice and juicy posterior.
What follows is a transcript of our interview with Bloom, conducted over a phone call, with any private details removed. Get a sense for how Bloom operates, how he selects the girls he chooses to approach, what his seduction journey has been like, and some of the techniques he’s using or developing to take lovers off the street, into his bed.
POB's Simple Text Ping for When Girls Leave You on Read
This post originally appeared on the forum here.
For context, please read this first (and the comments).
Let's say you are texting her back and forth using a proven structure.
(Like: get the number, ping, banter, soft close, hard close > date)
Now let's imagine you try to close and are left on read.
What to do?
Normally guys will wait a bit and re-ping.
Is that wrong?
Of course not.
But it means you are re-starting the process all over again. 🙁
A better solution is to press without being pushy!
But how to do it?
StrayDog's #1 Shopping Opener
This post originally appeared on our forum here.
Thought I'd share my #1 opener when shopping. It's so simple, and the opportunity so common I rarely need another opener.
Basically, you see a babe standing in front of a shelf/rack considering some items, you approach and open with
I can tell you are putting a lot of thought into this decision.
Granted your fundamentals are decent you will always be met warmly. Often with a laugh.
Now, obviously you have to follow this opener up to generate conversational momentum. But you can definitely consider the ice broken at this point.