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Hi Chase,

Great article, lots of good points and it's a really interesting topic.

There's one side of this argument that you didn't seem to touch on though, and it's the idea of delayed gratification, and the benefits it can have for a long term relationship. There's a really good article about it on The Art Of Manliness, at https://www.artofmanliness.com/2013/07/01/how-delaying-intimacy-can-bene.... It makes a few good points, and is backed up with data from a few studies.

It's quite a different perspective to the "moving quickly" stuff you advocate here on your site, and
I'd love to hear your thoughts on the merits of this idea and how it gels with the rest of your philosophies on dating.

Thanks Chase, keep chasing.

Regards,
Andy