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Hi Vaughn,

Anytime you're feeling like a certain type of person is out of your league, it's just a form of othering / not relating to that sort of individual. You can overcome it by building up new reference points and through using visualizations - see this article:

Reference Points and Changing Worldviews

Once you have enough women like this around you and enough good experiences with them, pretty soon they stop being out of your league, and start being just another kind of girl, no better and no worse than anybody else.