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Thanks so much for this detailed analysis on what is probably a simple thing. Within this week, I am planning on talking to one of the biggest crushes I have had in my entire life. Before I read this, I was going over and over in my mind all the possible things I could say and all the possible counter statements I could make, but she would undoubtedly pick up on my robotic speech. I was a mess, and I had no idea what I was going to do, I read all kinds of articles devoted to "tricking" women and sleeping with them, but that was not my aim.

I now know I just gotta keep it cool, collected, and confident. Ask about things of common interest to a woman of her age group, simply listen to her, and gauge my conversation accordingly, tailoring it to what she responds with and keeping the conversation natural just like I would with a friend.

It really boosted my confidence knowing that I could be in control of the conversation and make women do most of the talking (because they want to talk), all the while impressing them.

Thanks again!