A note from a female perspective. Some girls like to gain a connection first and that takes time. And what prize or real satisfaction comes from having something straight away? If you can persist (but not stalk) it will pay off. I like my man to pursue for a period of time, if he doesn't then it shows I'm not that special to him. I think this post gives some bad advise. And some good. If a girl doesn't like u it will be clear, you will know when to stop. But it the window is still open and she is still receiving u then keep going. Patiently working towards a goal of her I think is rewarding in itself. For what gained in haste lasts??