I connected with the girl before I started faithfully reading girlschase. I've been implementing a lot of lessons and will try some recovery tactics with this girl... but she's not the only woman out there.
Best advice ever is to go out often... and alone. I made a few tweaks and now women are opening me. I'm still a newb... making mistakes but it's fun and I can picture my future and it's full of great, fun, sexy women.