Chase why are there so many stories of a guy persisting and persisting In the midst of obvious rejection and then finally getting the girl. In my personal life, one of my employees chased a girl for 2 years before she finally gave him a chance and then fell head over heals for him. Another, instance, a very confident and successful man named grant Cardone called his now wife twice a month for an entire year until he got his now wife to go out with him. If you search on google, "does persistence work with women, so many stories come up with the guy who persisted and finally got the girl. How do you reconcile your belief in not chasing with these countless stories.