I just told a guy the same thing you said: that I'm not into games and if he really wants to hang out he would, otherwise don't waste my time talking about it. He actually apologized to me after carrying this crap on for almost 2 years. Texting me out of the blue, wanting to hook up but never taking action. I have no problem with casual hook ups but talking about it for no apparent reason is beyond pointless. I finally got rid of him. So believe me, guys do this too. Weird thing is, I will never understand why he would invest his time in contacting me, over and over again, with seemingly no intention on doing anything. I think he was trying to get me to chase HIM and I don't chase any guy...ever!