Seems you give really good feed back and I would love to get your opinion on this. I have a girl that Ive known for almost two years. She lives in another city and we talk off and on but when we do the room lights up. I honestly feel that I want to be with her for a long time but Im not sure how to proceed. I feel I need to go to her and tell her I want to be with her. But Im not entirely sure how to do that. Or whether she wants the same things. I feel when she text me she does by the small little cute gestures and comments she says towards me like "I miss you", "The weekend we actually had all to ourselves was the best couple days of my life". She says things like that but then doesn't text for a while. Maybe shes scared to commit to something that may be long distance. I am willing to move and relocate my life for her. (Shes that kind of girl) But before doing that I need to know that I am doing this for the right reasons and not just out of selfish want. I dont' know what words to use or how to talk to her about it. I am not overwhelming to her about it I just don't know what to do. I love your posts they are really helpful just wondered if you could give me some help.