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I've known a girl for most of my college career that I have always been very connected with. We've been friends for a few years now and have always joked like were the same person... same music, hobbies, interests... it all. We were always friends, but both of us showed interest in one another of the years. Nothing too blatant, but it was obviously there. She has also been obsessed with this guy for most of the time too. Her chasing him is an understatement. Anyways, I dated someone else and she moved away, but I recently texted her and asked her out on a date. I sort of poured my heart out to her, and she did somewhat in return. But she said that she didn't think she could do a long distance thing right now, but she has thought about us so much and thinks it could happen someday. Anyways I was extremely disappointed she didn't jump at the chance. And since then we've texted and talked like normal, but I can't read what she is thinking or wants. Because she also told me that day that she is afraid she could hurt me long distance. I don't know if I should chase her. I don't know what to do. I could see this girl being my soul mate. I have always became attracted fast, and I really want to chase her. I've been doing everything in my power not to though. I just don't know what to do here. I might be seeing her soon, and I'm wondering if I should just lay it all out for her and say I'm not worried about long distance because of how close we are. I don't know. PlEASE any advice would be so hopeful. And I'll answer any questions. This is maddening! I really think she could be the girl of dreams, and I'm wondering if it wasn't the best idea to pour my heart out to her when I asked her out, even though she kinda did too. I wonder if it was just too fast, but I thought it was okay because we're so close!