Chase, I've always believed that when it comes to matters of the heart there are no standard formulars or solutions hence I've always ignored following advise from magazines and internet.....
But Damn this is good, and it sure sounds like it comes from someone who has been around,lol
Because no matter how much we would like to think we all unique induvidual's and should be excluded from these stats, one can't help but notice the common outcomes/trends derived from a particular group of people's actions (the different characters)
May I perhaps request that you give us advise or insight as to why as a man you still feel bad/hurt when a woman cheats on you even though you know very well you did not make her happy...(sometimes on purpose.)
I find myself in a situation where a woman whom I constantly criticised for not being good enuf for me eventually cheated,I had plans to leave her anyway, but when she cheated first I felt crushed, WHY????
I learned a lot from this post, especially with reference to my case, the qoute below stood out :
"And be ready if you can't meet her needs to let her go - time is a lot more important to women than it is to men. As a man, your value only increases as you age - hers drops. If you can't give her what she wants - children, ultimately - put aside the selfish desire to keep her for companionship and intimacy, and release her to go find a man who can"