I can relate to the third reason women cheat. I was "dating" a girl exclusively and she was totally wrapped around my finger. However, I refused to call her my girlfriend or publicly display our relationship. Long story short she cheated and made it obvious so she could get caught. She begged me to stay in the relationship with her and has apologized/ done anything to make me want to come back. So my question to everyone here if i do really like this girl do I take her back and how do I remain the dominant assertive alpha male that she was attracted too?