Very interesting read and once one does not experiences this oneself it does not make sense. If I knew what I knew now and read this article I would have never bothered getting in a commited relationship. The amount of effort, trial and error and basically minimal return is just not worth it. Seems relatipnships are now build on games and impulses. There is no such thing as mutual respect and support. This article just highlights that being a sensible macho wins hands down. How about writing some pieces when children are involved? Seems there is a lot a real man has to do but women on the other hand can pick and choose? Funny thing is I can relate with a lot of the things here but overall am left wondering why bother with a relationship of this type? Try to play the little Spiel as mentioned in this article will leave you emotionally tired, drained and time better spend.