You're not special or unique, Men are not and neither are women. Women mentally mature to the age of 8-12 then it stops and the emotional roller coaster dictates where they go and women oblige completely. The only thing women really care about is what other people think of them, am I too fat? am I wearing enough makeup so that people cant see what I really look like and how bad my skin is? etc etc that could go on forever. Women are inherently WEAK especially emotionally, the only tools they have at their disposal are manipulation in every form and women are masters of this, more and more men have stopped caring entirely. I love it when I hear "where have all the good men gone!?!" we are hiding from YOU!