If a girl does not pull out her purse to pay, then she is being selfish. If a guy did this to a girl she would make a stink about it. You need to make a stink about it, tell her she is being a selfish hypocrite & sexist double standards are not exceptable in the 21st century. If she apologises for treating you like trash, except her apology, If she argues the point then you, have nothing to lose, just pay your own share & walk off. You would have to think your self as desperate to want a second date with a leach. You need to get over this attitude that men need to be nice to all woman, if woman don't deserve to be treated well then treat them the same way there treating you, which is like trash.