For the love of god, there’s no such thing as a “vaginal orgasm’ - educate yourself!
A site that seeks to help men understand women, but doesn’t know something that is this basic? Do you have any idea how many women believe they’re deficient because this kind of ignorance continues to be perpetuated? How many myths are there around our bodies? The virginity myth, vaginal orgasm, we’re not as visual as men, etc!
There’s some great insight in most of these articles, but please, do your damned research. We’re tired of men assuming they know something about us that they don’t. And we’re even more tired of those falsehoods continually repeated and being made to feel like there’s something wrong with us. Just so that men’s fears can be soothed.
Most women do NOT orgasm through intercourse alone. The clitoris is THE ONLY organ in our bodies capable of orgasm. Imagine if you men were told that there’s something wrong with you if you couldn’t climax without having your dick stimulated. The penis is NOT analogous to the vagina. The penis is analogous to the clitoris. Basic anatomy. Embryonic development. Read a book.
No matter your skill set or dick awesomeness guys, we’re not gonna climax without some kind of clitoral stimulation. You can accept that and develop some patience, since we can’t jack rabbit to orgasm like you guys do. Or you can hold onto old myths and blame us for having a problem that you made up. Don’t go off whining and blaming us if you choose the latter, because in that case, we’ll continue to lie about our orgasms to soothe your ego or we’ll find a knowledgeable, non-judgmental, and more patient lover.
Want to know about women? Ask us! Or at least, do your own research instead of spreading disinformation. If you’re truly interested in learning how to please us so that we’ll be motivated to please you, you can start here: