Just seen your replies Chase.
I know that I ask the same questions from time to time and it seems mind boggling that nothing has changed. I feel the same exact way as well.
I told you I still get girls that act different in person, but they don't want to go out.
I read your article about being taken seriously so many times I can't tell you.
1. Act like an author figure with women.
2. I am showing that I am busy as possible. Girls have told me that I seem busy before.
3. I don't act like a friend, nor do I communicate with girls like that. I ask for the number, get the date, they agree, then flake. I don't try to talk all day or hang out with them like a friend.
4. I make sure girls know not to waste my time nor will I do anything I don't want to either.
So I do pretty much everything from that article and it still isn't working.
It's gotten to the point where I even tried to do the opposite where I try to text all day and talk on the phone.
I know that this stuff has been going on for a very long time, but can I really take all the responsibility for this? I can't control women and have them change.
Since that article I have been putting in the work approaching, I thought very hard about my impression with girls and what I could have done wrong, I analyze everything to do better next time.
These girls seem to like me, I move them, they give me compliance, etc. I'm sexy, touch is good, they don't make funny faces, I ask for the date before the number. I read these articles all the time and try to do everything the way it is laid out.
And how I'm sure you're like "dude, this has been going on for a long time", I feel the exact same way which is why I ended up in a relationship for years, I was tired of it.
Now I'm dealing with this all over again, even with girls from apps where a lot of guys seem to be doing well off of and getting notches from.
It may seem that I'm not trying, but I am, this has been going on for a long time and I agree as well, but I wasn't just saying fuck it and not using the advice you gave me.
I make sure to do my best on approach, I make sure I get compliance, they act very attracted to me and are into me, ask for the date, get the date, then I try to set it up, then they flake.
I mean what else can I do? It's up to them if they want to see me again, I have no control besides on what I can do.
From what I see I'm doing well with everything else.
Should I feel bad about myself for this still not being fixed after so long? I don't feel good about this not getting fixed at all.
Only things I can think of is to move faster and approach a lot more women.
I'm telling you that I've been working on this for some time and not bullshitting. I wish it was because I was being lazy, but it's not. These women are just not acting the same after the approach.
Guess I'm asking what else I can do? but I made this message because I wanted you to know that yes, this is something that has been going on for quite a while and I've been trying to make things work since then, but I make sure to do those things that are from that article and whatever else you tell me.
If you have any advice please let me know, but just know that I didn't give up and still try.