"How many lays and relationship experience?"
Dude I pulled this off with just 3 lays and 0 relationship experience. Asking that question just shows you imposing limitations on yourself ;)
"Were you financially stable?"
Was broke and living with my parents.
Numbers are not enough to tell you if you are ready or not. Personally I wasn't sure if I could pull it off or not but I went for it anyway.That relationship lasted just under 3 years. Push yourself outside of your comfort zone and you'll be surprised at what you can pull off.