Thanks for the response! And definitely agree with the wine aspect. I tend to keep chilled glasses in the fridge as options. The thought and sophistication tend to be noticed and appreciated. To push this further and for increasing compliance, if going to her place, an hour so before I get there, I would texted her to chill a couple glasses for us which also serves the purpose of a reminder text of our date especially if it's been 24 hrs+ since last communication and/or setup of date.
So Chase, what about that last previous question, what changes if it's at her place? Including the actual setup/ask of the dinner date especially if it's due to logistics e.g. living with family?