Hey chase I found the part where you talked about limiting other parties options interesting. I knew dating girls who like to drink and party isn't a good idea long term,but I never heard of moving out of downtown or not letting you girlfriend go on trips. It sounds like a lot of effort to move out of somewhere like downtown manhattan to suburban queens just so your girlfriend has less attractive options when she might not like the move or stick around in the relationship long after you move. Have you really done this? How would you not let your gf go on trips? How would you phrase it and do you need to select a certain type of girl? To the outside eye it looks like you are being very controlling and not permitting her to do anything she wants to do. People would think you're insecure,controlling,needy and at the extreme abusive,but I know you aren't any of these things and you wouldn't share this info with your friends.