Tactics Tuesdays: How to Pick Up Girls Who Are Out to Be Seen | Girls Chase

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There are few places to go to be seen during daytime. Maybe some charity events or concerts or sporting matches. But with daytime events, women tend to stick closer to their groups of friends. You do not have people peeling off individually to go home, or hooking up with people, etc.

The other thing to consider is daytime events like these tend to be much less social. If she's at a sporting event, she is there with her group of friends. She is not there to socialize with strangers. Still can be done, but there are obstacles. And even then, the main event for her will still be the game, or the music... "being seen" is a secondary consideration, usually.

For girls who go out early and leave early, their trajectory is the same, it just wraps earlier. Before a girl like this leaves the venue, she's dropped her "out to be seen" agenda. Still possible to meet her on her way out, but girls like this usually won't hang around for long after they've had their fill of being seen. Keep in mind that most girls who go out early and leave early are not going out to be seen (if she's out to be seen, usually she will want to stay until the night reaches the point where people have stopped caring about her look/status, and the validation tap runs dry).

On those teasing examples: use the bored look. Nonverbal trumps all, 9 times out of 10 ;)