I would have to disagree. I do think that being physically attractive is a big advantage to getting your foot in the door but not as big as you might think. I used to be very good looking. Top of my class. Literally voted best looking in my year book and I met another guy who was the same. We were both virgins in high school. I gained about 40 pounds of fat since then. I am not tall btw. 5'8. I can pull any chick I want right now. No exaggeration. But I consider myself to be a kind person, so I won't be going for your girlfriend unless she becomes your ex. Fair game then.