I definitely feel in the last category, in fact often almost the same question comes to my mind: I feel like I've worked on myself in many ways yet I still don't feel I deserve someone I am truly attracted to.
I've been going to the gym for more than a year, and people frequently comment on the changes I made to my body - yet I always feel I should have already gotten more muscular and stronger.
I'm making multiple times my country's national median income as a freelancer who can work anytime, anywhere, yet I always feel that it will not be enough for beautiful girls unless I can provide a lavish and luxurious life.
I am being told that I come across as confident, manly and competent, yet I always feel people look at me weirdly or think I'm meek or weak.
Simply put, even though I doing my best, I feel like it will never be enough, that I absolutely have to be in the top 0.01% in everything else because I'm not 6 ft tall and don't have a chiseled masculine face.
Sometimes I resolve to take action, but after I get a few rejections from daygame, I fall into self-hate and despair. It's really an on-going battle for me, and time's f**n passing by.
So what do you do when you have this very deep sense of not being good enough no matter what you do? How do you build the internal resolve to push through the number of rejections necessary to achieve a success? Because this is what I lack.