Your comment is EXACTLY where Red Pill awareness comes in. Women are inherently schizophrenic.
My opinion: err on the side of unapologetic masculine dominance, and both parties generally win. Err on the side of sympathy, and prepare to get fucked by a feminine primary system (male apologists fail by trying to play both sides of the fence… just be a genuine dude – see articles by Hector on this site).
P.S. AVOID contact with extreme feminist women. They are bad apples.
She enters your world… not the other way around.
Tweak your way to the top ;)