How can you apply these same principles to people that tell you "you need to/should/have to..." that you aren't trying to seduce, like family and friends?
I notice I get a lot of these especially from family. I guess they somehow feel jujstified that because they're family, they have the right to consistently tell you what choices you should be making in life, how you need to be doing this with your life and not that blah blah blah. Basically, just beng real busybodies. Any tips?