1. The man who pretends to be nice (or genuinely tries really hard because he's had it ingrained in him by parents/schoolteachers).
2. The man who is unapologetically open about his desire to "pork" women he's attracted to.
If guy number two also has a good level of social calibration, women tend to love and defend him at all costs.
She enters your world… not the other way around.
Tweak your way to the top ;)