Yes, it's an important mindset to get down, especially as you
approach an advanced level with women. Often the "loves women vs.
doesn't love women" divide is the biggest difference between a
technically skilled guy who gets okay results and a technically skilled
guy who gets outsize results.
To a certain extent, you'll need to make your own mental
breakthroughs to get there. But these articles may help to make a few
of the reframes / gives you the lenses to look through to do this:
The pussycat article in particular focuses on opinion-shifts on
women. I might read that article first.
Facial expressions, yes. It's a constant theme among naturals, among
the sexiest and most iconic movie stars... and it holds true for the
most romantically talented women as well. I've talked about expressions
Although if you want my opinion on why these seem to be so crucial,
That they are the most efficient way of communicating (Law of Least Effort)
They serve as a signal to other socially talented people that
you are among the social elite
They allow you to stand out in unique ways - all elite-level
socializers have their own set of charming, attractive, and sexy facial
expressions, with their own tweaks and variations, that convey the
unique personality aspects they want to convey. Very powerful way of
not being just another faceless member of the crowd
Those are my Big 3 on facial expressions, and what I've long seen as
the reason for their ubiquity among the social elite.